In this episode of High Velocity Radio, Lee interviews Michelle Enjoli, a career strategist on how to become the CEO of your career. She shares her journey from first-generation college student to landing her dream job as a news producer in New York City, and explains why professionals at every stage must stop waiting for permission and start creating their own opportunities. From redefining networking as authentic human connection to building a strategic personal brand that attracts the right opportunities, Michelle delivers practical—and sometimes tough—advice on taking ownership of your career path.


Michelle Enjoli is a speaker and career strategist who helps professionals and leaders confidently build personal brands, powerful networks, and meaningful careers.
A former TV producer and marketing professional for global brands, she brings real-world experience and practical strategies to every stage and session.
Her keynotes and workshops empower audiences to lead with purpose, communicate with authenticity, and navigate their careers like entrepreneurs. Her thought leadership has been featured in TED, Forbes, Entrepreneur, Business Insider, and more.
Connect with Michelle on LinkedIn.
What You’ll Learn In This Episode
- Breaking the “wait your turn” mindset and recognizing when following the rules is actually holding your career back
- What it truly means to be the CEO of your career and one practical shift you can make at work immediately
- The truth about networking and personal branding—and what most people are getting wrong
- How ownership looks different from college students to Fortune 500 leaders—and what successful professionals do at every stage
- Balancing strategy and authenticity without feeling political or calculated
- The critical mindset shift required to pivot after 10+ years in the same role or industry
This transcript is machine transcribed by Sonix.
TRANSCRIPT
Lee Kantor: Lee Kantor here. Another episode of High Velocity Radio and this is going to be a good one. Today we are going to discuss how to become the CEO of your career with Michelle Enjoli. Welcome.
Michelle Enjoli: Thank you for having me, Lee.
Lee Kantor: And while I’m excited to learn what you’re up to, tell us about your practice. How are you serving folks?
Michelle Enjoli: Yeah, so I help both leaders and professionals what I call stop waiting for permission and start owning their career trajectory. So what I’ve found throughout the years is that you have many people who are working today and doing all the right things. They’re going to the right schools, getting credentials, working really hard, and sometimes they struggle to see the growth that they want to see. And so I decided to help those folks learn, because no one has taught them how to position themselves in order to see that growth. And so I’ve focused on helping folks do that.
Lee Kantor: And then the type of people you help, are they kind of people early in their career, in the mid-career, at the end of their career? What where are they at when they get Ahold of you?
Michelle Enjoli: Well, so it’s interesting, I started this practice with early to mid-career in mind. And what’s the evolution of it has been that it’s been all over the place, from students about to graduate college to early, mid or late career people needing to pivot, wanting to pivot. So I’ve seen it at all different stages of people’s careers.
Lee Kantor: And this is a hot button issue for me because I’m always I don’t like to be waiting for someone to pick me. I like to try to take control as best as well as I can in order to be the chooser instead of the waiting to be picked person. Um, it sounds like philosophically we’re on the same page there.
Michelle Enjoli: Oh, absolutely. That’s exactly the foundation of what I teach today, because it’s necessary.
Lee Kantor: And that’s very counterintuitive because, you know, when you’re going to school, everybody’s just basically kind of telling you to just shut up and get along and just, you know, just follow this kind of escalator path to the next level and you’re just kind of waiting your turn until you just get the tap on the shoulder so you can, you know, enter into the room you want to enter in. How did you kind of land on this? Because I believe it is counterintuitive, is not what is conventional thought out there right now.
Michelle Enjoli: Oh, absolutely. So there’s been a number of things that led to this conclusion, even in my own life. So a little bit about me. I’m a first generation American and a first generation college student. So right from the beginning, before my career even started, I had to figure it out. I had to basically set a path for myself because one just even figuring out what college I wanted to go to and what I wanted to study, I didn’t have anyone who had done that before in my family or my close circles. And so that was the first start of it, of me having to initiate this, these steps for myself. Secondly was I came to the conclusion that my dream job was going to be to become a news producer in New York City. I was very specific about the type of job that I wanted. And as you know, the communications industry is very, very competitive. And so in order for me to accomplish that, I had to do the same exact thing, figure it out, build my own connections, build my own pathway. And so I thankfully successfully did that in college and ended up landing that dream job even before my college graduation, which was a miracle to me. At that point, I thought they were punking me when I received the offer, and so I think that was a catalyst for me understanding that I had to create my own path.
Lee Kantor: So when you were able to kind of land the job, you I mean, somebody might say, well, I got picked, I did everything right and I was the one who was anointed this position. But you saw it a different way. You said, I got this because I made certain moves. I was proactive, I took control of the situation. I did not wait.
Michelle Enjoli: Absolutely. Yeah. So instead of I mean, I used every resource in school. So I’ll give you a couple examples. I would interview people over coffee. I would ask even other students, faculty, do they know someone in the industry? I took a lot of odd jobs to learn and how to perfect. Whether it was writing and speaking. I was, you know, I became an anchor for this little news station up in northern new Jersey, where as a college student, I had the wonderful, wonderful schedule of waking up at 3 a.m. in the morning on Saturday mornings to anchor the morning, um, you know, uh, morning newscast on the weekends. That was not fun at all. But I did it because I knew that that was my way in of acquiring skill sets and making connections. So I had to do a lot, a lot of work to get there.
Lee Kantor: Now, when you’re working with people, especially young people, a lot of times they want to kind of make the their path go at a speed. Maybe that is a little unrealistic. How do you help them kind of manage their expectations when it comes to deploying a strategy like this? Because, you know, at some point, like you said, you got to do the thing, you can’t wait. And then just they’re not going to just believe you can do the thing. You got to actually do the thing.
Michelle Enjoli: Oh, absolutely. And this is something that is very, very common today, this mindset. Because unlike when I was going to school, I didn’t have social media. And today, you know, social media, these kids are being fed false information every day that you can build a business and become a millionaire overnight, or that you, you know, you can graduate school and everyone gets their dream job at the maybe the company or things like that. There’s a lot of unrealistic expectations. And what I help people understand is you have to be moving at all times. The timeline is going to depend on a lot of different circumstances. Yes, you have to work, but it also depends on the market, what’s going on. There’s politics involved, especially when you’re working at different companies. So I kind of walk them through this roadmap that teaches them a lot of those skill sets, not just, you know, having a vision for where they want to go in the next 2 to 5 years, but also how do you get there? And that mindset involves, you know, being realistic, you know, shifting your mindset, you know, building a good personal brand, learning how to connect with people. So I really focus on the entire process so people understand what it takes to get there.
Lee Kantor: Now for some people, I would imagine this is, you know, you’re doing some tough love here, right? You’re trying to help them. But this is not what a lot of people want to hear.
Michelle Enjoli: Oh, absolutely. Oh, I have plenty of stories that I can tell you, especially from younger folks of, you know, me giving them that tough love and and them rejecting it at first. I mean, I get all different types of scenarios. I have people who reject it and kind of don’t talk to me for like about a month or two. And then they come back and they say, oh, wait, I probably should have listened. Sorry about that. Or they reject it at first, but then quickly adapt and they start doing things and they start seeing results. So I get a lot of different reactions.
Lee Kantor: Yeah. I remember a young person came to me a few years ago and they’re like, I want to be a writer. And I’m like, oh, great, show me some of the writing you’ve done. I don’t have any examples. Like you, I go, you don’t have a blog, like blogs are free, like you can write and you know, no one’s stopping you from writing. There’s no barrier to entry to write. And then they just wanted in their head this kind of dream of what a writer would be like without the actual work of being the writer. Um, I just find that really interesting. In today’s the mindset is so different.
Michelle Enjoli: Oh, absolutely. And I do blame it. You know, I tend to not always blame it on them. I think I blame it on the access and the technology. And like I said, this perception that’s been created in the media, that’s been fed to them or is fed to them every single day, that these things happen to people without much effort. And that’s just not the case. People are not overnight successes. It looks like it, by the way. People edit videos and things like that on social media, but that’s just not the reality.
Lee Kantor: So now part of your methodology, um, and you mentioned this, that networking was kind of important as you kind of became the CEO of your career. Can you talk about maybe the misinformation that’s out there about networking and what networking really means to you and how folks should leverage it moving forward?
Michelle Enjoli: Yeah, absolutely. So here’s a thing that I’m going to bomb, I’m gonna drop. I actually hate networking. And when I tell that to people, you know, when I’m keynoting or giving a seminar, people look at me strange and I go, because if you really think about it and you look up the word networking in the dictionary, it’s a very vague definition of building business relationships. But again, you’re not telling me how to do that. And what I’ve learned is people need simple ways of understanding concepts. And so what I found that the way that I did it was something that I was learned naturally. And so I think about this. I grew up in a large immigrant family in a town in new Jersey outside of New York City. And I remember growing up being at my grandmother’s house. I had a large extended family, and waking up and coffee was a staple in the morning. And I remember waking up never knowing who was going to be at the kitchen table with my grandmother, because it could have been anyone a family member, a friend, a neighbor. But what I noticed as I grew up was that the conversations that were taking place at those tables were about solving problems as immigrants and people around our community.
Michelle Enjoli: It was about, you know, Did you find a job? Is your daughter getting better? And that naturally instilled in me a way to connect with people that was more natural. And so when I started doing this work, I came up with a definition for networking, which I call connecting and what it is, it’s the definition. It’s an authentic attempt to learn or assist someone. And so what that is, it’s not defined by a place or a time. This conversation, this connection, can take place anywhere in a coffee shop on the train. And it’s just simply thinking of three things being authentic and truly being curious about people. Learning about people. You know, why are you here at this event? You know what brought you to this city? And then if there’s an opportunity for you to assist, whether it’s you can assist or you have a recommendation or a referral that can help them with something that they’ve talked about, then you offer it. But that’s just like a natural way of learning about people and then solidifying connections by offering assistance any way that you can. To me, that’s very natural. And it’s not bound by an event or a specific scenario or environment.
Lee Kantor: Well, it sounds very human and it doesn’t sound very, um, marketing automation y.
Michelle Enjoli: Yes.
Lee Kantor: Um, I can’t tell you how many LinkedIn connections requests I get from people that with. If I connect within seconds, it’s buy my thing. Um, they want to just eliminate the humanity from the interaction. And I think that, um, people are hungry for human to human connection. So if you can actually do that in a, in a with a mindset of service rather than a transaction, you’re going to be better served in the long run.
Michelle Enjoli: Oh, definitely. It’s interesting. I can tell you a really cool story that I just heard a month ago when I was on a trip of someone, and it goes really in line with what we’re talking about. And it was, this is a guy, he’s in business development, and the services that he offers are not services in the hundreds or thousands. His services are in the millions of dollars. And he told me a great story where he was coming to an event to talk to someone who he wanted to pitch something to a potential client. And so what he ended up doing was he went to dinner with this gentleman first the night before, and he said, you know, we didn’t talk about business. We actually just ended up talking about family. They both have families. They had a couple things in common and they just went to dinner. Well, lo and behold, the next day, later in the day, he looked at me and he said, oh my God, um, he’s gonna sign with us. And I said, what do you mean? He goes, well, we never even spoke about business, nor did I give him a presentation. But my office just called and said that he had dinner with me last night and that he wants to move forward and see, that is awesome. He didn’t have to have a PowerPoint presentation or anything. He simply connected with him over dinner on a human level. And I guess the likability was so strong that the person felt okay moving forward with him. I think that’s awesome.
Lee Kantor: Right. And that’s what happens when you have human to human interactions. And it isn’t kind of a polished, scripted, um, you know, PowerPoint. It’s it’s a human being talking to a human being. And then during that conversation, you can tell, do we are our values aligned? You know, how are they treating people around them? Like, you can learn a lot just by having a human conversation and paying a little bit of attention. It doesn’t have to be transactional.
Michelle Enjoli: Oh, absolutely. And here’s the thing. I mean, this is something that I live by and what makes life exciting for me. And I tell people this can make life exciting for you, is lead with curiosity. Like, we live in a massive world. There’s. And you know, I was lucky where I was raised in an environment full of diversity and culture, and my family was really big on the weekends we’d go and, you know, into New York City and eat at restaurants, you know, in Chinatown that were underground and constantly just learning and engaging with people from all different parts of the world. And that’s how you have to go about this, is go about it with curiosity.
Lee Kantor: Now, how would you advise people when it comes to developing their own personal brand, like being able to stand out and being authentic is critical when you’re growing your network or you’re growing your career. So what are some do’s and don’ts when it comes to developing a personal brand?
Michelle Enjoli: Yeah. So first we’ll start with, you know, a personal brand is something that it’s a feeling that you create in others when they think and talk about you. So I tell everyone, you know, I know there’s a lot of effort into, you know, a great headshot on LinkedIn and appearing a certain way, but a great personal brand or a valuable one, as I like to call it, is one that helps attract opportunities to you. And the way that you do that is it’s by what people say when you’re not in the room. And so building a valuable personal brand is all about action. It’s not about what you’re saying. It’s not about what you’re appearing to be. It’s action. And so your actions every day determine how people see you. So I always tell people, you know, the way you build a valuable personal brand. It depends on what is it that you’re trying to accomplish. So for example, if you’re looking to break into a different industry, a different part of your company, you want to pivot. Build a valuable personal brand means one being known for being really good at that thing, whether it’s acquiring the skills, whatever that is, communicating that value, but also engaging and connecting with people in that arena so that when your name is brought up, right, you are known for that specific thing.
Lee Kantor: So it’s important to be kind of find something that you’re the go to person for.
Michelle Enjoli: Absolutely. And the way that you do that is in your actions, whether it’s online or offline, like you have to be intentional. I’ll give you an example. I was working with an athlete last year who wants to make it to the NFL. Very talented in college, and we were talking about what is building a valuable personal brand mean. And we came on the topic of social media. He has a massive following on Instagram. And, you know, he’s a superstar in school as athletes tend to be today. And his goal is to, you know, get nil deals and get brand deals and eventually get to the NFL. And what I told him was I looked at his profile and there were some questionable things. And I said, well, if this is where you want to go, the brand that you want to have, like, actually have and be known for, it needs to be there to get there by doing these actions. And I’ll give you an example. One of these actions were how you present yourself on social media, like maybe less partying pictures, and maybe it’s you training you, spending time with family, just being authentically you, but in a way that represents you. So that if I’m at Nike or I’m at another big brand. I look at your social media and you represent the type of athlete that we want to represent. And so making people understand that nuance is that, you know, understanding what is your goal, but then being strategic about how you express yourself, that is what becomes your personal brand.
Lee Kantor: And especially if you’re looking for, uh, corporations to invest in you.
Michelle Enjoli: Exactly, exactly.
Lee Kantor: They’re they’re looking for a reason to say no. So if you give it to them, they will take it. So, um, you have to protect your brand and their brand, too, because if they’re paying you, they are now associated with you.
Michelle Enjoli: Absolutely. And that’s part of it, right? A personal brand, like when I say a valuable personal brand, because we all have a personal brand, that’s also something to talk about. And I, especially with young people that are on social media, I say, whether you want to or not, you do have a brand today. You have a brand that you’re building online and there’s one that you’re building offline in your interactions. But if you want a valuable personal brand is one that gets you the opportunities that you specifically want. So in the scenario that I just described with the athlete, that’s exactly what you say he has to think about. Well, what would be if someone were to sign me? What kind of person do I have to be to be attractive for those kind of offers? And that’s how you should be displaying yourself. That’s strategic.
Lee Kantor: Right? Unless he wants to be sponsored by somebody, that’s okay with partying. And like if that’s his dream sponsor, then go boldly forward there, guy. Exactly. Now, um, is there you mentioned a few examples, but is there a story that you can show that that’s maybe the most rewarding, where somebody came to you and maybe they were stuck and you were able to help them get to a new level? Obviously don’t name their name, but maybe share the challenge that they had and where they were at and how you were able to kind of help them elevate.
Michelle Enjoli: Yeah, absolutely. I actually have one, the one that comes to mind because I just engaged with her not too long ago. It’s personal and professional. It’s interesting. I was, um, I babysat her in college, and so obviously she grew up. I grew up, and eventually she went to school, went to college, and she had this dream job that she wanted, just like I did. It’s so funny. And she came to me, this is this might be now maybe 5 or 6 years ago now. Anyway, she came to me and said, hey, Michelle, you know, you know, I just saw this job posting. It’s my dream job and it’s a really big job where she lives. And so I worked with her and gave her, you know, a couple of strategies to practice. And lo and behold, she ended up getting that dream job, which I think she was like the youngest person ever to get that job. So that was super exciting because that wasn’t just a professional accomplishment for me. It was just very endearing because I was obviously she was a personal connection, someone that I saw grow up. So that was, I think, really, really cool.
Lee Kantor: Now, is there, um, in the services that you, um, Deliver. You’ve mentioned a few different ways that you interact with folks. Is it, um. Is your work primarily kind of coaching them in terms of, okay, here’s some. Here’s how I would do that, or this is your next move to make. Or are you actually, like you mentioned with that athlete? Are you helping them kind of build that brand and helping them with social media and and helping, you know, where does your kind of, um, services begin and end?
Michelle Enjoli: Sure. So it’s very interesting because I, I don’t like cookie cutter services because what I do is not really cookie cutter in the way that I do it. And so here’s what where it is, I built a foundational roadmap that helps people strategize for where they want to go in their career. And so I deliver it in a number of ways. One is through keynote speeches, so I speak for universities, business school, corporate companies on a couple of different topics that have to do with career ownership. So I speak on how to become the CEO of your career. I also speak to leaders that are looking to take this CEO mindset and help their organizations and their employees grow. And then I also do one on one coaching, which is what I’ve spoken about, which is depending on your goals. So I have a framework that I use, but every single person is different. One minute I could be working with an athlete who’s looking to grow his personal brand and attract sponsorship opportunities. The next minute I could be working with someone who is 52, who has been working, have been working in the same industry and area their whole lives, and due to a reorg or a layoff or a desire to pivot, now they want to rebuild and try to work towards rebuilding a brand that will attract new opportunities in a different area. So it depends what it is in terms of the one on one coaching. So I do essentially the same thing, which is I’m a career strategist, I call it I help people strategize how to grow depending on where they want to go. But the process can be unique depending on where someone is in their career and what their particular goal is.
Lee Kantor: So if somebody wants to learn more, have a more substantive conversation with you. What’s the website? What’s the best way to connect?
Michelle Enjoli: Sure. Well, most people love to connect with me on LinkedIn, which I welcome. So it’s Michelle and Julie on LinkedIn. They can go to my website. Uh michelangeli comm or on socials as well. Instagram. I get a lot of messages as well under Michelle Angelique.
Lee Kantor: And the spelling is m I c h e l l e e n j o l I.
Michelle Enjoli: Yes.
Lee Kantor: Well, Michelle, thank you so much for sharing your story today. You’re doing such important work and we appreciate you.
Michelle Enjoli: Thank you for having me, Lee.
Lee Kantor: All right. This is Lee Kantor. We’ll see you all next time on High Velocity Radio.



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