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Heather Rogers and Mindy Sullivan, Simply Organized

April 6, 2022 by John Ray

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Heather Rogers and Mindy Sullivan, Simply Organized (Organization Conversation, Episode 12)

Heather Rogers, Owner, and Mindy Sullivan, Interior Designer, of Simply Organized joined Richard Grove and Stephanie of Uncommon Outpost on this episode of Organization Conversation. They discussed some common issues they encounter helping people organize their homes and moves, NAPO (the National Association of Productivity and Organizing Professionals), different applications for Wall Control in the home, common obstacles their clients face, when to get rid of possessions, and much more. Organization Conversation is broadcast from the North Fulton studio of Business RadioX® inside Renasant Bank in Alpharetta.

Simply Organized

Simply Organized was founded to help people simplify their lives. Their typical client usually feels overwhelmed in their home or office or wants more time in their day and less stress in their lives. Simply Organized

They specialize in helping people who work from home, anyone who is getting their home ready to sell, needs packing or unpacking help, and in time and routine management coaching. They serve the Atlanta metro area, including Cherokee, Cobb, Dawson, North DeKalb, Forsyth, North Fulton, Gwinnett, and Hall.

The Simply Organized team has the training and skills to help you organize everything from your hectic schedule, family, home, and office in all metro Atlanta areas. They only hire experienced professional organizers so you can be certain anyone from Simply Organized knows how to de-clutter, sort, pack, unpack, pre-stage, and help with spatial planning.

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Heather Rogers, Owner, Simply Organized

Heather Rogers, Owner, Simply Organized
Heather Rogers, Owner, Simply Organized

Heather Rogers is a professional organizer, owner of Simply Organized, and author of “A Simplified Life”. She and her team specialize in helping people decrease the clutter in their lives, create a more organized environment, manage their time more effectively, increase productivity and maintain calm in the midst of a busy life.

Her clients include professionals and entrepreneurs who work from home, anyone who is getting their home ready to sell, individuals and families who need help packing or unpacking, and busy professionals and families who need assistance with time management and space maintenance coaching.

A Georgia native, Heather has worked in the insurance and financial services industries, as well as in customer service and sales. She has a passion for helping people and a keen sense of spatial planning and organizing. Ironically, she earned a bachelor’s degree in risk management from the University of Georgia. Isn’t being disorganized one of the greatest risks in life?

She is the past president of the National Association of Professional Organizers Georgia (NAPO) and frequently speaks to groups about the benefits of time management and the costs of disorganization.

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Mindy Sullivan, Interior Design, Simply Organized

Mindy Sullivan, Interior Design, Simply Organized

Mindy Sullivan joined the Simply Organized team in 2020.  Mindy comes with 20 + years of interior design experience and an aptitude for organization and spatial planning. She has a great attitude and fantastic work ethic!

Mindy is a professional interior decorator for over 20 years with clients across the country. She loves nothing more than helping a client feel good in their own space and keep it that way!  Her design background is from the Art Institute of Atlanta fuels my ability to make a space make sense while looking good in the process. Whether it’s organizing drawers and closets or finding a place for all your beloved pet’s gear, you can be sure that you will be proud to show off every corner of your home.

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About Organization Conversation

Organization Conversation is hosted by Richard Grove, and broadcast and produced from the North Fulton studio of Business RadioX® inside Renasant Bank in Alpharetta. You can find the full archive of shows by following this link. The show is available on all the major podcast apps, including Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google, Amazon, iHeart Radio, Stitcher, TuneIn, and others.

About Richard Grove

Richard Grove, Host, Organization Conversation

Richard Grove‘s background is in engineering but what he enjoys most is brand building through relationships and creative marketing. Richard began his career with the Department of Defense as an engineer on the C-5 Galaxy Engineering Team based out of Warner Robins. While Richard found this experience both rewarding and fulfilling, he always knew deep down that he wanted to return to the small family business that originally triggered his interest in engineering.

Richard came to work for the family business, Dekalb Tool & Die, in 2008 as a Mechanical Engineer. At the time Wall Control was little more than a small ‘side hustle’ for Dekalb Tool & Die to try to produce some incremental income. There were no “Wall Control” employees, just a small warehouse with a single tool and die maker that would double as an “order fulfillment associate” on the occasion that the original WallControl.com website, which Richard’s grandmother built, pulled in an order.

In 2008, it became apparent that for the family business to survive they were going to have to produce their own branded product at scale to ensure jobs remained in-house and for the business to continue to move forward. Richard then turned his attention from tool and die to Wall Control to attempt this necessary pivot and his story with Wall Control began. Since that time, Richard has led Wall Control to significant growth while navigating two recessions.

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About Wall Control

The Wall Control story began in 1968 in a small tool & die shop just outside Atlanta, Georgia. The first of three generations began their work in building a family-based US manufacturer with little more than hard work and the American Dream.

Over the past 50+ years, this family business has continued to grow and expand from what was once a small tool & die shop into an award-winning US manufacturer of products ranging from automobile components to satellite panels and now, the best wall-mounted tool storage system available today, Wall Control.

The Wall Control brand launched in 2003 and is a family-owned and operated business that not only produces a high-quality American Made product but sees the entire design, production, and distribution process happen under their own roof in Tucker, Georgia. Under that same roof, three generations of American Manufacturing are still hard at work creating the best tool storage products available today.

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Battling Imposter Syndrome: An Interview with Stacey Ruth, Unstoppable Leader

April 5, 2022 by John Ray

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Battling Imposter Syndrome: An Interview with Stacey Ruth, Unstoppable Leader

Anyone who has started their own professional services practice faces imposter syndrome at some point in their journey. What happens, though, when the stress of imposter syndrome is so severe that you find yourself on the bathroom floor, bleeding internally and suffering severe headaches and hair loss? In a frank, raw interview with host John Ray, Stacey Ruth, CEO of Unstoppable Leader, shared her battle with imposter syndrome, and how it affected not only her physical health but her professional services business as well. Stacey discussed the many ways imposter syndrome shows up, how to diagnose and deal with it, how imposter syndrome can become a diversity and inclusion issue, imposter syndrome and pricing, and much more.

To download the imposter syndrome workbook Stacey mentioned in the interview, follow this link.

The Price and Value Journey is presented by John Ray and produced by the North Fulton studio of Business RadioX®.

Stacey Ruth, CPC, CEO, Unstoppable Leader

Stacey Ruth, CPC, CEO, Unstoppable Leader

Stacey Ruth is unstoppable. She founded two multimillion-dollar agencies, has been among the Top 50 Entrepreneurs Under 50 in Atlanta, and twice awarded Top 100 “It” Agencies by Experiential Marketer.

As a novice entrepreneur, she made nearly every business decision mistake possible – and learned how to make the necessary personal transformations in order to thrive. Her businesses survived personal challenges, the fallout of 9/11, deep recessions, and her own health issues resulting from a battle with imposter syndrome.

Today she coaches other CEOs and executives on how to make faster and more accurate decisions, using their inner wisdom. She is a passionate advocate for women leaders claiming their own seat at the table they design for themselves.

Stacey delivers sustainable change, measurable results, and immediate impact for her clients. Her human-centered approach is designed to help ignite the transformational leadership every organization requires.

Her book, Own Your Own Shift is available on Amazon, and her new book, Inside Out Smart will be available April 19, 2022.

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John Ray: [00:00:00] And hello again, everyone. I’m John Ray on The Price and Value Journey. Today, we’re going to talk about imposter syndrome. And I think that’s an important topic for anyone who sells what’s between their ears. Because what’s between your ears and imposter syndrome can get mixed up in a big way, particularly if you’re coming out of corporate. You’ve had this shelter of corporate, maybe the branding and the assistance that comes from corporate. And, suddenly, you’re out in your own practice trying to do all your own thing, comparing yourselves to everyone else out there that’s doing what you’re doing, and wondering whether you’re doing it right or whether you belong where you are.

John Ray: [00:00:50] And we’ve got a fantastic guest to talk about this important subject. Stacey Ruth is the CEO of Unstoppable Leader. Stacey founded two multimillion dollar agencies. She’s been among the top 50 Entrepreneurs Under 50 in Atlanta. And twice awarded the Top 100 It Agencies by Experiential Marketer.

Stacey Ruth: [00:01:14] As a novice entrepreneur, Stacey made nearly every business decision mistake possible – wow. And she learned how to make the necessary personal transformations in order to thrive – even bigger wow. Her businesses survived personal challenges, the fallout of 9-11, deep recessions, and her own health issues resulting from a battle with imposter syndrome.

John Ray: [00:01:41] Today, she coaches other CEOs and executives on how to make faster and more accurate decisions using their personal wisdom. She’s a passionate advocate for women leaders claiming their own seat at the table that they designed for themselves. She’s got a new book out, it’s her second book following her first one, and her new book is called Own Your Own Shift, and it’s available on Amazon. And as we record this, it’ll be out in a few weeks on April 19, 2022. Stacey Ruth, it’s a pleasure to have you on.

Stacey Ruth: [00:02:17] Absolutely a pleasure to be here. I think you’ve got a really, really great group of listeners who can really benefit from what we’re talking about today. This is going to be great.

John Ray: [00:02:27] Yeah. Thank you. I really appreciate you being willing to share what you’ve got to share about your own journey. But talk about how you started your practice and just the background of your practice. What led you to go out on your own?

Stacey Ruth: [00:02:44] That’s a great one, because I was actually in a corporate agency. We were the largest global production and event marketing agency in the world at one time. And I’ll say, it was pre-focused on diversity and inclusion. And it was very much a, I’ll say, male lily white type of environment, very much like Mad Men if anyone watches that. And I was very much seduced, if you will, by the excitement and being a part of it. And it was also a sweatshop and I was very exhausted. And couldn’t kind of keep up with the politics. We were buying a new company, literally, every week at the time. And so, I chose to take the leap out on my own. And it was still in an industry that was male dominated.

Stacey Ruth: [00:03:52] And I don’t know if you and your listeners are aware, but imposter syndrome is not just up to the moment term that people are using to describe self-doubt. It’s actually a diversity and inclusion issue. And it belongs to the people who are first only or different in an industry or in a business or an organization.

Stacey Ruth: [00:04:17] And I was a woman CEO of a fast growing agency, and what was at the time a male dominated field. And I immediately started experiencing this since I was young and I was female, that maybe I didn’t have what it took. And then, I started trying to shore myself up. And that’s when things went a little bit sideways.

John Ray: [00:04:47] Now, was this before you left to start your own firm, or was it during this big firm experience that you had, or both?

Stacey Ruth: [00:04:56] Well, both. The big firm experience kind of set me up to feel that I was down in power structure as a young female. And I talk about that in my upcoming book, Inside Out Smart. And we’re talking about biases. And we’re talking about assumptions. And we’re talking about how society shapes a lot of our beliefs about ourselves. And so, it’s shaped a lot of my beliefs about what I was and was not capable of, even though I’m a relatively gregarious and confident person. But in that context, I experienced a sense of maybe I don’t belong here and maybe they’ll find out I don’t know what I’m doing. And that just carried over into starting my own business.

John Ray: [00:05:54] So, how were you able to start your own business when you had imposter syndrome to begin with?

Stacey Ruth: [00:06:02] That’s great, because the idea behind being able to move forward is to be able to tap into our inner concept of our self, our inner wisdom. Some of that is intuition. Some of that is our ability to connect to our own purpose, our own values. And I had enough of that to be able to take the risk, to take the leap. And that’s true of most entrepreneurs. And we have a growing entrepreneurial culture going on right now.

Stacey Ruth: [00:06:41] But 84 percent of entrepreneurs self-identify with imposter syndrome. So, it’s not just women, it’s not just underrepresented demographics, it’s not just black or brown or gay, LGBTQ+, whatever it is. There are things that will lead us to believe that maybe we don’t have what it takes. And someone somewhere is going to find out and we’ll be outed.

John Ray: [00:07:15] So, talk about what happened with you as you built your own firm. What was that journey like? What was going on with the firm? And then, what was going on with this arc of imposter syndrome for you?

Stacey Ruth: [00:07:32] Oh, absolutely. And, you know, I’m going to be really real with you, because I was my own worst nightmare boss when I started the agency. And so, I did what a lot of individuals with imposter syndrome will do.

Stacey Ruth: [00:07:51] And when we talk a little bit about how people can contact me, I do have an imposter syndrome workbook where people can identify whether they have it. There’s some questions on there and then ways to deal with it.

Stacey Ruth: [00:08:05] But I was micromanaging, so I was hovering over the folks that worked with me. I brought in additional executives who were men, who were older than me, in order to shore up what I felt was lacking credibility. I also was over delivering, over performing. So, I was burning the candle at both ends. I was working around the clock, 80 hour workweeks. And it was never enough. It was never enough for me. And my employees could never do enough for me in that dynamic.

Stacey Ruth: [00:08:50] So, a lot of people who are solopreneurs can identify and then they can also experience what might be going on in their organizations if they have employees or vendor partners and suppliers.

Stacey Ruth: [00:09:02] And what wound up happening to me, I didn’t realize what was going on. That was just what I thought I had to do. And what wound up happening to me – and I share this when I speak on imposter syndrome – is there was a day when I found myself on the floor of the women’s bathroom. My hair had been falling out. I was having headaches 24/7. And, now, I was bleeding internally. And that’s the level of pressure and stress that imposter syndrome puts on us.

Stacey Ruth: [00:09:38] And I’ve heard other women leaders talk about similar kinds of health issues. Arianna Huffington talks about it. I know there’s a number of people that discuss it. So, if we internalize it rather than recognizing it and dealing with it, it can actually do some serious damage to our physical well-being.

John Ray: [00:09:59] Did you attribute at that time imposter syndrome to the physical symptoms you are having? Or did that take a time to make that connection?

Stacey Ruth: [00:10:11] No, I did not. It took time to make that connection. And one of the reasons that I’m so willing to share what I went through was I actually was reading what Arianna Huffington was going through. I was reading what other women with imposter syndrome were going through, because I was following other women leaders, like, what are they doing? And so, I was starting to hear these stories and I was like, “Oh. That’s me.” And so, it was this slow dawning by hearing other people share what they were going through and how they were dealing with it.

John Ray: [00:10:48] And so, you really didn’t know imposter syndrome was to blame for any of this until you really identified it in others.

Stacey Ruth: [00:10:59] Correct. And I mean, I’ve certainly studied it, immersed myself in it, so that I really can deal with it. And I think I’m on a mission to share it with others, because given that I am a lifelong entrepreneur, given that I do believe that entrepreneurship is crucial as a foundation for our entire economic structure, and 84 percent of entrepreneurs are dealing with this. I think it’s so important to get it out there and not let people just think, “Oh, well. I just doubt myself.” Oh, no. There’s more going on. And it’s possible to overcome it, and it’s not difficult once you recognize it.

John Ray: [00:11:47] But what you’re implying here – or you’re not implying. You’re saying it flat out – thank you – is that you can go on and function “normally” for years and suddenly hit a wall, because that’s what I think I hear you saying was it captures your experience with imposter syndrome.

Stacey Ruth: [00:12:13] Yes. And, in fact, the more you achieve and the higher you go, I’ll say, the rarer the air where you are, the more likely you are to experience imposter syndrome in a new role in an organization where there aren’t any others like you at the level at which you’ve achieved. So, that’s what really starts to trigger it, first, only different and high achieving.

John Ray: [00:12:49] So, you found yourself on the bathroom floor. You had all these physical symptoms that were so powerful. What happened? How did you take care of yourself physically, number one? And number two, when did that connection come? You know, did it take a while before you read about Miss Huffington and others that had this same issue?

Stacey Ruth: [00:13:15] Well, I think that it tends to be when we start to realize something’s wrong and we start looking around for what it could be, that we start to see things that were right there in front of our face that we never saw before. And that certainly was my experience. Now, I had already been through all of the physical tests and they couldn’t find anything physically wrong with me, with standard blood work and all. I even had an MRI.

Stacey Ruth: [00:13:44] But I did go get therapy help with what was going on because everyone pretty much settled on. It was stress. And as we were getting into that conversation, I started to realize that it was really my concept of what was necessary and what I deserved that was not being met. And I was the only one who could meet it. And, of course, I was seeing what other women were experiencing kind of in concert with that.

John Ray: [00:14:19] Right. Right. Say more about that, the part about what you deserved. I mean, what was your mindset there?

Stacey Ruth: [00:14:27] Well, my mindset was classic for imposter syndrome. And the definition of imposter syndrome is, no matter what you’ve achieved, you tend to dismiss it as luck, knowing the right people. It’s something outside of your control. It has nothing to do with the fact that you actually worked really hard for it. You were really qualified for it. You really did the work. You did the work and you got yourself there. So, I realized I was pushing away my own credibility and handing over my success to outside situations, people that they were supportive but they didn’t cause it, if that makes sense.

John Ray: [00:15:19] So, for you, what did the arc of recovery look like? Was it something that took a while? Was it something that you had on the other extreme, a moment of pure insight where you saw the light from the heavens and you knew you were worthy? I mean, talk about the arc of your recovery.

Stacey Ruth: [00:15:41] Well, the arc of my recovery was starting to apply a lot of the tools. And the tools, for the most part, they are self-awareness and mindset tools. So, was I picking up the tools going, “This will fix my imposter syndrome”? No, not exactly. The first thing I was trying to do was get my self back in balance. As I’m getting myself back in balance, what I’m doing is talking to other people about what I’m actually feeling inside.

Stacey Ruth: [00:16:18] As impostors, we don’t want to let others see how hard we’re paddling just underneath the surface. And being able to have someone that I trusted, who I didn’t feel like sharing with them was going to sabotage anything I was doing in my career was extremely powerful. So, being able to share what you’re going through is critical. It gets it out of your head and allows you to get perspective.

Stacey Ruth: [00:16:45] Another thing that’s very important was being able to let go of some perfectionism and let go of some of that micromanaging control, which was part of the work. The other thing – and this may sound a little woo-woo to your audience, but it is probably one of the most powerful tools for dealing with imposter syndrome – is to be able to shift our internal mantras. And one of the ones that imposters have, especially if they’re starting their own business, is, no one will pay that much for what I do.

John Ray: [00:17:22] Oh, yes.

Stacey Ruth: [00:17:25] And you can shift that into an affirmation. And my agency, initially, was notoriously under charging for our services. No one will pay that much for what we do. And when we flipped that and said, “No. We are charging fair market value for very valuable services.” So, when you do an affirmation, your brain has to believe it’s possible. So, the way out there, affirmations aren’t as effective as simply saying I provide a service that has real value, and owning the value that you provide.

Stacey Ruth: [00:18:17] So, those are some of the things that it’s not a grand sweeping shift. It’s making those micromovements that continue to assert, I deserve it, I’m worth it, and I bring something of value through my experience.

John Ray: [00:18:38] Folks, we’re here chatting with Stacey Ruth. She is the CEO of Unstoppable Leader. I want to circle back around to, I guess, the how I know I’ve got imposter syndrome. For you, it was more obvious than maybe it is for some others who maybe they don’t have the physical symptoms. Maybe they haven’t hit that wall yet. But how do they know that they’ve got something that’s serious that they better take care of?

Stacey Ruth: [00:19:11] Well, I think one of the easiest ways to get our brain around the symptoms are – and this comes out of the book, The Secret Thoughts of Professional Women by one of the kind of forerunner researchers on imposter syndrome in women, which was discovered in the early ’70s – she defines five personality types.

Stacey Ruth: [00:19:37] One of them is the super hero. And that’s the person who’s going to do it all and take on that one more thing. And people are like, “Oh, my gosh. How do you get that all done?” So, if that resonates with you, you might have imposter syndrome. Another one is the expert. That’s the person who always has to have one more degree, one more credential, one more certification. They have all of this knowledge, but they can’t quite get out of the gate. And, you know, a lot of coaches deal with that. But not just coaches, a lot of folks feel that need.

Stacey Ruth: [00:20:20] Another one is – and I don’t think she calls it this. Oh, yes. She does – the natural genius. And the natural genius has always learned things really easily and things come easily to them. So, they’re smart, they’re capable. And then, they bump up against that one thing that it doesn’t come as natural to them and they don’t really know how to learn something new because it’s always been so easy for them. And so, they start to doubt themselves because, “Why is this one hard?” So, that’s another one, if that resonates.

Stacey Ruth: [00:21:04] And then, there are the perfectionists, the person who’s always got to get it 100 percent right all the time or do nothing. So, there’s a fear of failure behind that, and that leads to a lot of procrastination, which can also be a hallmark of the imposter syndrome. [Inaudible].

John Ray: [00:21:23] Well, for those folks, if they ever get it sent out or hit send or hit publish, whatever, then they’re looking at all the errors in it that they should have caught. Right?

Stacey Ruth: [00:21:36] It’s what keeps a lot of people from writing that book. It keeps people from applying for that job. It keeps people from making their deadlines. Or – oh, my gosh. This one – that burst of energy that gets you across the finish line and the person says, “Oh, well. I’m really motivated when I have a deadline, so I’ll get it done.” And yet that’s actually not how our brains work. So, what actually happens is, yeah, you get it done, but it’s probably got a lot of mistakes in it. So, the procrastination and perfectionism which can go hand in hand can actually feed each other.

Stacey Ruth: [00:22:23] So, if any of those resonated, someone might be dealing with a case of imposter syndrome. Mine was classic and mine was intense. Not everyone’s is that classic or that intense. And yet, if it goes without being dealt with, it can build, which was also what happened for me.

John Ray: [00:22:46] Now, speaking of intense, I saw Sheryl Sandberg, formerly with Facebook and Google. She said that both men and women are susceptible to imposter syndrome, but that women tend to experience it more intensely and be more limited by it. What’s your perspective on that?

Stacey Ruth: [00:23:09] This is true. It was first identified in women and in the ’70s where women were coming into the workforce. And I said it earlier in the conversation, imposter syndrome is really a diversity and inclusion issue. Because we, as a society, tend to feel like if I’m the only woman or only fill in the blank, any underrepresented demographic – I’ll just use women because it was first discovered with women – then I feel like there’s no one I can relate to. And, therefore, I don’t belong.

Stacey Ruth: [00:23:53] So, there’s a sense of not belonging where we are, because when we look around in the landscape, we can’t identify with anyone else. So, that’s one reason that women and other underrepresented demographics will feel that way.

Stacey Ruth: [00:24:09] Another reason, especially for women, we feel like we might be betraying other responsibilities. So, we might be betraying because that’s still the way the society is structured, “I have the responsibility for the home. I have the responsibility for the kids.” And then, “I’m not being true to that responsibility.” And, also, “What about my peers? I’ve now left them behind.” So, all of those internal struggles can really feed it, especially for women.

John Ray: [00:24:44] Okay. I don’t want to get men off the hook here.

Stacey Ruth: [00:24:48] No. They’re not off the hook. No, no. Especially male entrepreneurs.

John Ray: [00:24:55] Yeah. Let’s pull them in here. So, what is the issue with men? Do they not have imposter syndrome as much? Do they not talk about it as much but they really do have it underneath the surface? What’s going on with men?

Stacey Ruth: [00:25:14] Well, again, I think that especially when men achieve a certain level within an organization, that high achieving man, the man who goes out on his own and starts a business, we have then put ourselves in a first only different situation. So, all the same feelings can apply, “I’ve left my peers behind. My peer group is back there, they’re behind me. Why am I so special? So, I don’t belong here.”

Stacey Ruth: [00:25:54] Maybe the guy was a the natural genius. And now suddenly, “I’m doing something I have no context for, no experience for, and I don’t know what to do. And I feel like somebody’s going to find out that I don’t know what I’m doing.” All the same rules apply.

John Ray: [00:26:14] I got it. So, let’s talk a little bit about, I guess, how you deal with it. And do you need a third party? You mentioned getting therapy, do you need a third party, a live person to be able to help? Maybe a trusted adviser or a coach, someone like that? And if so, how do you find that person? Because you’re at a moment of, obviously, doubt, how do you find a trusted person that you can walk that journey with?

Stacey Ruth: [00:26:54] Well, as a coach, I happen to believe that no one “needs a coach”. Now, all the coaches are going to cringe when I say this. I don’t believe anyone needs a coach. I believe that coaches accelerate what we’re ready to lean into. They give perspective, accountability, and all of those kinds of things that it just takes longer and it can be harder to do on our own.

Stacey Ruth: [00:27:26] So, can someone get over imposter syndrome on their own? Yes. Of course, they can. They can pick up the books. They can do the blogs. They can get all the information. Putting it into application is so much faster and easier when you do it with somebody who understands. So, that is possible with a mastermind support group. It’s possible with a coach, like myself. It’s possible with a mentor. It’s possible with a therapist. I mean, there’s a number of outlets that you can work through.

Stacey Ruth: [00:28:02] I think for CEOs, especially women CEOs, who especially deal with this, working with a coach who’s been there, done that, got the t-shirt, is a great way to accelerate getting through that because it does slow you down, limit your growth, and limit what kind of income you can generate.

John Ray: [00:28:27] Yeah. I want to get to that now because this is The Price and Value Journey and I’m all about pricing. And you brought that up earlier, so I want to get to income and pricing here in just a second.

John Ray: [00:28:42] But you mentioned the term get over it, getting over it, and I don’t know what the term is, do you ever really get over it? Or maybe it’s a bad analogy that once an alcoholic, you’re always an alcoholic. It’s just a matter of controlling it and dealing with it mentally, the mental aspect of it, and doing what you’ve got to do, whether you’re in AA or whatever, to walk that journey as an alcoholic. Are you always suffering from imposter syndrome or it’s just a matter of controlling it?

Stacey Ruth: [00:29:20] Well, that’s an interesting choice of analogy.

John Ray: [00:29:25] Maybe it’s a bad analogy, Stacey, but –

Stacey Ruth: [00:29:28] No. Actually, I don’t know that it is. Actually, I’m going to pause for a moment. I’m going to say something I really want your listeners to lean in and hear this.

Stacey Ruth: [00:29:45] If you’re dealing with imposter syndrome, it’s not your fault. Because a lot of people will take that on and say, “There’s something wrong with me. What’s going on?” It’s not your fault. You’re a product of the society and the society’s beliefs and values. You can change yours. So, choosing to change is the important thing.

Stacey Ruth: [00:30:12] And the reason I said that that’s not such a bad analogy with someone who’s dealing with addiction, whether it’s alcoholism, drug addiction, or any other kind of addiction, is, the 12 step programs say, the solution is actually to understand, have a self-awareness, a consciousness of who you are in the context of the greater whole. And change how you’re seeing yourself so that you don’t feel empty inside. That you don’t feel like you’re lacking something inside.

Stacey Ruth: [00:30:47] And they say it’s of a spiritual nature. Well, I believe spirituality is based on values, and purpose, and meaning. And a lot of people who are dealing with imposter syndrome have kind of disconnected from their internal guidance system, which is values-based, purpose-based, meaning-based. And we’re really measuring ourselves by these externals.

Stacey Ruth: [00:31:08] We’re constantly comparing ourselves to everyone else and looking for affirmation that we’re okay. They’re not going to kick us out of the club today because they didn’t find out that we don’t really belong here. So, instead, we can turn in to our own inner guidance system that says, “No. I’m perfect, whole, complete exactly the way I am and I can do this. And if I need help, that’s not an admission of weakness. That’s an admission of willingness to grow and learn.”

John Ray: [00:31:46] I mean, we talked extensively about your bathroom floor experience. I want to give you a chance to talk about the other side of that. And just as you’ve been able to recognize and then put that experience in the box it belongs in your life. What has been the result for you and your business and your life?

Stacey Ruth: [00:32:15] Oh, my gosh. Well, I will tell you, I stopped racing. I love that question. I stopped racing against myself. It felt like I was competing with people, competitors, the industry, other CEOs. I was trying to be better, stronger, faster, all of that. I was doing it at the expense of my poor body that was just trying to serve me.

Stacey Ruth: [00:32:51] And, by the way, I do want you to know that I am 100 percent healed physically from that. So, I feel more energetic. I feel more engaged. But mostly I feel more fulfilled. The money is great. I mean, here we are, price value, you know. The money is great. It doesn’t fill the gap of self-doubt that is created by imposter syndrome. It never is enough because it’s always external.

Stacey Ruth: [00:33:29] So, what happened is I got a lot more satisfaction and I’m like, “Well, hey, this is doing something that is really of service I really love, and I get paid good money for doing it. What more do you want?”

John Ray: [00:33:45] Great words and great story here from Stacey Ruth. She’s the CEO of Unstoppable Leader. So, Stacey, let’s talk about pricing. Let’s get there. So, for you, how did imposter syndrome affect your pricing? How did you get to a point where, again, you put that in the box and kept it from affecting how you communicate and talk about your value?

Stacey Ruth: [00:34:26] Yeah. Well, it’s interesting – let me collect my thoughts on this one. Imposter syndrome can continue to pop up even after you’ve done the work. You recognize it when it does. And one of the places that it popped up for me recently, in like the last three years, when I really leaned in to doing the executive coaching, which I had people asking me to coach them, so I said, “Well, there’s a need for this. I’d be happy to step in and do this and I love it. I absolutely love it.”

Stacey Ruth: [00:35:11] And that little impostor syndrome sitting on my shoulder whispered in my ear – this is classic imposter syndrome – “Who do you think you are to coach CEOs and executives who are more successful financially, hierarchy, all of that, than you are?” And so, I’m walking through this because the answer to that is, “I don’t need to be more powerful, more successful in order to be able to serve. What I’m able to do is help them bring out their own inner wisdom.”

Stacey Ruth: [00:35:58] That’s what coaches do. We ask powerful questions and we help people discover their own truth, and their own value, and their own worth. So, I don’t have to lord it over them. I’m not even supposed to. That’s not my job. And so, I know what my value is and so I could set that imposter syndrome off my shoulder and say, “No. No. Not today. We’re not going to do that because that’s not even the truth of the experience,” if that makes sense.

Stacey Ruth: [00:36:30] I’m not sure if I answered your question, but I felt like that was an important shift for people to be able to hear that. I can charge what an executive coach charges because I’m being an executive coach. I’m not being the executive.

John Ray: [00:36:43] Right. Right. And I think what I hear you saying is that you really switched in your head from thinking about making this comparison of externals, external position, power, authority, whatever, to the outcome that you’ll help foster in the person that you’re going to be working with. And that’s where the value is, right?

Stacey Ruth: [00:37:14] Correct. That’s where the value is. And I’ve been in other industries. I’ve been in marketing. And a lot of folks are starting all different kinds of marketing and sales type organizations right now just as rife with imposter syndrome and pricing is all over the highway. And a lot of startup businesses are nickeling and diming on things that really have more value.

Stacey Ruth: [00:37:49] And you can get something on Fiverr for $5. Why would I pay someone $1,200, $2,000 for the same thing I could get for $5 on Fiverr? And so, that leads to a lot of imposter syndrome. Why should I charge $2,000 for this? Well, because you are providing the service. You’re making sure it’s tailored and customized. Whatever is going on there that makes it a higher value, own it.

John Ray: [00:38:24] Well, people are making the wrong comparison, right? I mean, they’re looking at the competitors instead of looking at the outcome they bring about. And they may have done this – like you’re saying you may have done this – many times before, but that doubt and that, “Oh, they won’t pay that,” that voice that comes in your head, it still comes back. And so, do you treat it like a friend and just wave at it and say, “Okay. I see you,” and they keep going. Is that what you do? That’s what it sounds like.

Stacey Ruth: [00:38:58] A little bit. A little bit. And the steps I go through are awareness, “Oh, I recognize that voice. I know what that voice is about. Okay. We’re having an impostor moment. Let’s just have a moment.” And then, when that happens, “Okay. Is that true?” Questioning those thoughts is critical to shifting them, “Is that true?” If it’s not true or if I don’t know that it’s true, what’s an alternative? And then, pursuing the alternative and testing it. Being willing to test that alternative. And that’s really how the shift occurs. Individual variations, of course. But that’s the critical component is awareness and then questioning our thoughts about that.

John Ray: [00:39:57] You know, I’m so glad we could do this show because I work with folks a lot on their pricing, and what I recognized, the base problem for so many of them really is imposter syndrome. And that’s really the underlying problem. I’m not the psychologist. I’m not the coach like you are.

Stacey Ruth: [00:40:18] I’m not a psychologist, I just want to be clear. Neuroscience, yes. Psychologist, no.

John Ray: [00:40:24] Okay. Noted. But I guess what I would ask you, to submit to you, is, I think it’s dangerous for people to think about this in terms of, “Oh, I need to get what I’m worth, because that takes you down the internal conundrum that you’re going through and switch it toward outcomes I bring about.” And if you do that, it should help get you out of the whole business about thinking that it’s about you. It’s not about you. It’s about the outcomes you help foster with the work that you do.

John Ray: [00:41:15] And I realized for some people that may be a subtle difference. But that’s really the step folks need to take. That’s what I would think. Now, give me your reaction to that.

Stacey Ruth: [00:41:27] Well, it actually makes me think about something that a lot of new coaches are told, is, you’re not selling coaching. Coaching is what you do. It’s not who you are. And so, to be able to share the results that you create changes the entire conversation. So, helping someone get out of overwhelm, helping someone be able to get clarity around what next steps are, that’s what coaching does.

Stacey Ruth: [00:41:57] So, when somebody says, what do you do? I don’t say coaching. I say I help executives and CEOs who are dealing with exhaustion, overwhelm, a new position, a lot of change, and really help them get clarity and focus so they can grow their influence and impact. That’s what has value. That’s what creates the price value equation.

John Ray: [00:42:22] There you go. Yeah. I love it. I love it.

Stacey Ruth: [00:42:26] Yeah. Results are the deal. Results are the deal. And allowing yourself to own the results and not feel like you’re being full of yourself.

John Ray: [00:42:42] Yeah. I like it.

Stacey Ruth: [00:42:43] And to get the testimonials, to ask for the referrals, all of those things imposters will hold back on as well.

John Ray: [00:42:52] Great point. We could talk more about that, that’s for sure. But that’s a great way to end. Stacey Ruth, CEO of Unstoppable Leader. Wow. Stacey, I can’t tell you how much I appreciate you coming on and sharing your story in such a raw and real way. I really appreciate you.

John Ray: [00:43:16] And I just want to go back because I bungled your book when I mentioned your books.

Stacey Ruth: [00:43:21] All the books. All the books.

John Ray: [00:43:21] Yeah. That’s what happens when you release multiple books, right? So, Stacey’s first book was Own Your Own Shift.

Stacey Ruth: [00:43:32] Be careful how you say that. Yes.

John Ray: [00:43:35] That’s right. And I almost bungled that, too. But her new book is called Inside Out Smart. So, be on the lookout for Inside Out Smart.

Stacey Ruth: [00:43:45] Yeah. April 19th it launches.

John Ray: [00:43:46] Coming here in April 19, 2022. And Own Your Own Shift – I got that right – is out. It’s been out. You can get it right now. So, I wanted to clarify that for everyone. But, Stacey, again, thank you so much for coming on. Before we let you go, I would love it if you could, if you don’t mind, sharing your contact information so folks that are interested in hearing more about you and your work can be in touch?

Stacey Ruth: [00:44:15] Absolutely. I think one of the best places to reach me is through my website, unstoppable-leader.com. And you can find me all over social media, Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, Stacey Ruth Says, and that’s S-T-A-C-E-Y. So, I look forward to connecting with your listeners. You’re doing great work here.

John Ray: [00:44:42] Thank you, Stacey. I really appreciate you. And thanks again for coming on.

Stacey Ruth: [00:44:46] Thank you very much.

John Ray: [00:44:48] Folks, just a quick reminder, if you’re a newcomer to this series, you can find the full show archive at pricevaluejourney.com or on your favorite app. Just use that search term price value journey, you’ll find the show. And if you’d like to connect with me directly, just send me an email. john@johnray.co. Thank you for joining us.

 

About The Price and Value Journey

The title of this show describes the journey all professional services providers are on:  building a services practice by seeking to convince the world of the value we offer, helping clients achieve the outcomes they desire, and trying to do all that at pricing which reflects the value we deliver.

If you feel like you’re working too hard for too little money in your solo or small firm practice, this show is for you. Even if you’re reasonably happy with your practice, you’ll hear ways to improve both your bottom line as well as the mindset you bring to your business.

The show is produced by the North Fulton studio of Business RadioX® and can be found on all the major podcast apps. The complete show archive is here.

John Ray, Host of The Price and Value Journey

John Ray The Price and Value Journey
John Ray, Host of “The Price and Value Journey”

John Ray is the host of The Price and Value Journey.

John owns Ray Business Advisors, a business advisory practice. John’s services include advising solopreneur and small professional services firms on their pricing. John is passionate about the power of pricing for business owners, as changing pricing is the fastest way to change the profitability of a business. His clients are professionals who are selling their “grey matter,” such as attorneys, CPAs, accountants and bookkeepers, consultants, marketing professionals, and other professional services practitioners.

In his other business, John a Studio Owner, Producer, and Show Host with Business RadioX®, and works with business owners who want to do their own podcast. As a veteran B2B services provider, John’s special sauce is coaching B2B professionals to use a podcast to build relationships in a non-salesy way which translate into revenue.

John is the host of North Fulton Business Radio, Minneapolis-St. Paul Business Radio, Nashville Business Radio, Alpharetta Tech Talk, and Business Leaders Radio. house shows that feature a wide range of business leaders and companies. John has hosted and/or produced over 1,100 podcast episodes.

Connect with John Ray:

Website | LinkedIn | Twitter

Business RadioX®:  LinkedIn | Twitter | Facebook | Instagram

Tagged With: imposter syndrome, Inside Out Smart, John Ray, Own Your Own Shift, Price Value Journey, pricing, professional services, professional services practice, professional services provider, solopreneurs, Stacey Ruth, Unstoppable Leader, value

Nikki Rohloff, Rohloff Associates, LLC

April 4, 2022 by John Ray

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Nikki Rohloff, Rohloff Associates, LLC (Minneapolis-St. Paul Business Radio, Episode 36)

While most other CPAs are working eighty-hour weeks ahead of the April tax filing deadline, the team at Rohloff Associates is committed to fifty-hour weeks as well as eliminating hourly billing. It’s just two ways her firm defies the expectations of how a CPA firm can work, says managing partner Nikki Rohloff. Nikki joined host John Ray to discuss her CPA firm’s unique business model, how and why they integrate talent selection and team effectiveness into their service offering, and much more. Minneapolis-St. Paul Business Radio is produced virtually by the Minneapolis St. Paul studio of Business RadioX®.

Rohloff Associates, LLC

Rohloff understands that many CPA firms tout similar ideologies.

That would make complete sense considering numbers are numbers. However, they aspire to do things differently at Rohloff Associates. To them you aren’t just a number.

Their desire was and still remains to defy the expectations of how a CPA firm can work. Their story over nearly the past two decades is for their clients to know Rohloff Associates as their Relational CPA firm. In the effort to do so, they have removed the billable hour model which has opened the door to conversation with clients and their families on a level like no other.

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Nikki Rohloff, Managing Partner, Rohloff Associates, LLC

Nikki Rohloff, Managing Partner, Rohloff Associates

Nikki Rohloff recognized at an early age that fostering relationships was a foundational building block. She continued to hone that skill as she acquired a Bachelor of Arts in Accounting & Sociology.

Nikki is the expert and friend you want by your side when the landscape of life is uncertain. Her responsibilities over the years have run the full spectrum. With a background in Sociology, Nikki’s warm personality and collaborative style foster an implicit foundation of trust with her clients. In her role as a Rohloff Associates Partner, she understands that there are often difficult conversations that need to be broached when planning for the future, but her can-do spirit readily navigates many of those moments.

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Questions and Topics Discussed in this Episode

  • What makes your firm different than other CPA firms?
  • How do team engagement and behavioral assessments make a difference to your clients?
  • What have clients been struggling with during the pandemic?
  • Why is hiring to your culture so imperative?

Minneapolis-St. Paul Business Radio is hosted by John Ray and produced virtually from the Minneapolis St. Paul studio of Business RadioX®.  You can find the full archive of shows by following this link. The show is available on all the major podcast apps, including Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google, Amazon, iHeart Radio, Stitcher, TuneIn, and others.

Tagged With: accountant, accounting firm, CPa, hourly billing, Minneapolis St Paul Business Radio, Nikki Rohloff, P&L, Rohloff Associates, talent selection, Taxes, team facilitation

Our Intelligence is a Vulnerability

April 4, 2022 by John Ray

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In our professional services practices, our intelligence is a vulnerability, but not because we don’t know what we’re doing. On the contrary, the sharper our intelligence, the more captive we can be to our biases. Further, and contrary to what we might like to think, our intelligence is not the primary reason we usually win business. The Price and Value Journey is presented by John Ray and produced by the North Fulton studio of Business RadioX®.

TRANSCRIPT

John Ray: [00:00:00] Hello again. I’m John Ray on The Price and Value Journey. I recently finished a book called We Need to Talk: How to Have Conversations That Matter by Celeste Headlee. It’s a book I highly recommend, by the way, for a number of reasons, a couple of which I’ll talk about here.

John Ray: [00:00:19] There’s some obvious human reasons why we all need to improve our ability to communicate with each other. But there are some business reasons as well, Headlee notes. And she references research by Nobel Prize winning psychologist Daniel Kahneman, and he’s the author of Thinking, Fast and Slow, another book I highly, highly recommend, by the way. She points out that in Kahneman’s research, he finds that most people would rather do business with someone that they like and trust than someone they dislike.

John Ray: [00:00:51] I realized that may seem like a no-brainer to you and to all of us, but get this, customers will choose a likeable person over a less likable person, even if the likable person’s product is lower quality and higher priced. Professional services providers, what this means is that our degrees and certifications don’t mean as much as we’d like to think. It’s not that they’re not important, it’s just that our expertise at a certain point is assumed. Further, our ability to price our services effectively is more closely tied to our likability than our expertise.

John Ray: [00:01:32] Let me say that again, our ability to price our services effectively is more closely tied to our likeability than our expertise. We’re given a lot of latitude and dollars by our prospects and clients if we are likable. A major piece of likability, too, is tied up, not in how well we express ourselves, but how well we listen.

John Ray: [00:01:59] Headlee goes on to point out a red light warning in all of this. The smarter you are, the more you’ll assume that you know your biases, and therefore are effective at self-assessment. In fact, Headlee observes the exact opposite is true. Research indicates that the belief that your intelligence protects you from erroneous assumptions may actually make you more vulnerable to them. Our intelligence actually works against us as we evaluate our likeability, objectivity, or our ability to listen.

John Ray: [00:02:40] So, here’s the question then, what do we do to put a check on our erroneous biases and assumptions about ourselves? Now, for me, it’s having a few individuals who I can trust to tell me not what I want to hear, but what I need to hear.

John Ray: [00:02:59] So, what works effectively for you or what do you need to introduce in your practice? It could be hiring a coach. It could be engaging a mentor. It could be having an unofficial board of directors. Whatever it is, though, you need to have some friendly yet frank objectivity coming from a trusted third party that will help you overcome the limits and the biases that are inherent in your intelligence.

John Ray: [00:03:29] I’m John Ray on The Price and Value Journey. Past episodes of this series can be found at pricevaluejourney.com. And if you’d like to connect with me, you can send me a note, john@johnray.co. Thank you for joining me.

 

About The Price and Value Journey

The title of this show describes the journey all professional services providers are on:  building a services practice by seeking to convince the world of the value we offer, helping clients achieve the outcomes they desire and trying to do all that at pricing which reflects the value we deliver.

If you feel like you’re working too hard for too little money in your solo or small firm practice, this show is for you. Even if you’re reasonably happy with your practice, you’ll hear ways to improve both your bottom line as well as the mindset you bring to your business.

The show is produced by the North Fulton studio of Business RadioX® and can be found on all the major podcast apps. The complete show archive is here.

John Ray, Host of The Price and Value Journey

John Ray The Price and Value Journey
John Ray, Host of “The Price and Value Journey”

John Ray is the host of The Price and Value Journey.

John owns Ray Business Advisors, a business advisory practice. John’s services include advising solopreneur and small professional services firms on their pricing. John is passionate about the power of pricing for business owners, as changing pricing is the fastest way to change the profitability of a business. His clients are professionals who are selling their “grey matter,” such as attorneys, CPAs, accountants and bookkeepers, consultants, marketing professionals, and other professional services practitioners.

In his other business, John is a Studio Owner, Producer, and Show Host with Business RadioX®, and works with business owners who want to do their own podcast. As a veteran B2B services provider, John’s special sauce is coaching B2B professionals to use a podcast to build relationships in a non-salesy way which translate into revenue.

John is the host of North Fulton Business Radio, Minneapolis-St. Paul Business Radio, Nashville Business Radio, Alpharetta Tech Talk, and Business Leaders Radio. house shows which feature a wide range of business leaders and companies. John has hosted and/or produced over 1,100 podcast episodes.

Connect with John Ray:

Website | LinkedIn | Twitter

Business RadioX®:  LinkedIn | Twitter | Facebook | Instagram

Tagged With: biases, intelligence, John Ray, likeability, Price and Value Journey, pricing, professional services, professional services providers, The Price and Value Journey, value

Iris Grimm, Dog-Gone Leadership

April 1, 2022 by John Ray

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Iris Grimm, an executive and leadership coach for over two decades, developed a leadership program based on our relationships with dogs called Dog-Gone Leadership. She joined John Ray in the studio to share how this idea came to be, how she uses the metaphor of relationships with dogs to assist her clients, who she loves to work with, and much more. North Fulton Business Radio is broadcast from the North Fulton studio of Business RadioX® inside Renasant Bank in Alpharetta.

Iris Grimm (Master Performance Inc.)

For the past 21 years, Iris has guided executives, small business owners, and leaders in a variety of capacities and industries to reach the next level(s) of their success.

Their definition of success is as unique as their paths:

  • be more effective in their role as a leader, hence supporting their team better and having them be more engaged
  • start/expand their business or their career promotion in a purposeful way,
  • create more balance between work and personal life,
  • get out of their own way and show up at a better version every day and many more.

All these goals require an upgrade on inner leadership, trust in oneself and others, as well as letting go of unproductive habits, mindsets, and approaches.

Dog-Gone Leadership

Dog-Gone Leadership is a unique and innovative approach to optimizing performance in your company by utilizing canine relationships. Stop feeling resigned to the status quo and create better outcomes and connections with ease.

Dogs are not just (wo)men’s best friends. They can mirror our behavior and thinking. They reflect our leadership and energy. They can reveal our blind spots. They uplevel our performance and commitment.

Therefore, dogs are ideal partners for creating more conscious leaders, whether they are already in an official leadership position or not.

Dog-Gone Leadership with Iris Grimm steps outside of the conventional leadership development box.

  • Dogs shake off their stress with ease. Great leaders shake their stress off quickly and return to an emotional state that serves the situation best.
  • Dogs can read the energy of a room very quickly. Great leaders can read the energy in the room and adjust their style/approach accordingly.
  • Dogs let go of the past quickly (unless the humans get in the middle of it). Great leaders take nothing personally and let go of any grudges and conflicts swiftly.
  • Dogs reflect our leadership in vivid pictures and behaviors. Great leaders surround themselves with coaches and teachers who point out blind spots and challenge them to grow.

We take the boring out of leadership development and infuse playfulness, love, mindfulness, surrender, commitment, and many more leadership principles and skills that we can learn from dogs.

Dog-gone leadership is merging leadership performance with canine guardianship  – pulling out analogies, pointing out differences, and applying principles and skills with the dog that can be translated into the business world. This program is about bringing the best out of everyone – the leader, their team, and the dog.

As a result, participants transform their leadership with, from, and for their dogs – making this a win-win-win situation.

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Iris Grimm, Executive/Leadership Coach & Trainer, Master Performance, Inc. and Dog-Gone Leadership

Iris Grimm, Executive/Leadership Coach & Trainer, Master Performance, Inc. and Dog-Gone Leadership

Iris Grimm has been in the coaching and training industry for over 20 years. Whether her clients are executives in larger companies, business owners, or entrepreneurs, she loves to support them in creating richer experiences in their lives and work.

Iris is also the founder of Dog-Gone Leadership, an experimental training program where her clients transform their leadership with, for, and from their dogs. Her love for dogs and her extensive experience with dogs, combined with her devotion to support people to perform better as leaders, makes her training programs engaging, practical, and life-changing.

When she is not meeting with her clients, Iris loves to hike with her dogs and spends time in nature.

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Questions and Topics in this Interview:

  • What is the focus of Dog-Gone Leadership?
  • How did you come up with this concept?
  • With the pandemic, many people finally adopted a dog since they work from home. And once they returned to the office, they felt reluctant leaving their dog at home by themselves. What is your opinion about pet-friendly workplaces?
  • When you present this program in companies, does every participant have to bring their dog?
  • Is having a dog a requirement to participate in the Dog-Gone Leadership program?
  • What lessons can we learn from dogs?

North Fulton Business Radio is hosted by John Ray and broadcast and produced from the North Fulton studio of Business RadioX® inside Renasant Bank in Alpharetta. You can find the full archive of shows by following this link. The show is available on all the major podcast apps, including Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google, Amazon, iHeart Radio, Stitcher, TuneIn, and others.

RenasantBank

 

Renasant Bank has humble roots, starting in 1904 as a $100,000 bank in a Lee County, Mississippi, bakery. Since then, Renasant has grown to become one of the Southeast’s strongest financial institutions with over $13 billion in assets and more than 190 banking, lending, wealth management and financial services offices in Mississippi, Alabama, Tennessee, Georgia and Florida. All of Renasant’s success stems from each of their banker’s commitment to investing in their communities as a way of better understanding the people they serve. At Renasant Bank, they understand you because they work and live alongside you every day.

 

Special thanks to A&S Culinary Concepts for their support of this edition of North Fulton Business Radio. A&S Culinary Concepts, based in Johns Creek, is an award-winning culinary studio, celebrated for corporate catering, corporate team building, Big Green Egg Boot Camps, and private group events. They also provide oven-ready, cooked from scratch meals to go they call “Let Us Cook for You.” To see their menus and events, go to their website or call 678-336-9196.

Tagged With: Dog-Gone Leadership, dogs, executive coach, executive coaching, Iris Grimm, Leadership, leadership coaching, Master Coaching, North Fulton Business Radio, renasant bank

Jamie Cox, Brand Strategist and Designer

March 31, 2022 by John Ray

Jamie Cox
Nashville Business Radio
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Jamie Cox, Brand Strategist and Designer (Nashville Business Radio, Episode 40)

With a breadth of experience in the branding and marketing space, brand strategist and designer Jamie Cox took the leap in early 2020 to open her own business. Acknowledging that the timing wasn’t ideal, Jamie discussed her journey with host John Ray and shared how she made it work. She also talked about her approach to working with solopreneurs, the need for clients to keep an open mind, content creation, spin classes(!), and much more.  Nashville Business Radio is produced virtually from the Nashville studio of Business RadioX®.

Jamie Cox, Brand Strategist and Designer

Jamie Cox, Brand Strategist and Designer

Jamie Cox is a brand strategist and designer in Nashville, TN.

She works one-on-one with business owners and entrepreneurs to help them identify their brand purpose and share it with their target customers.

Jamie began her career as the Creative Services Manager at Visit Franklin. She started her business in what she thought was the middle of the COVID-19 pandemic, in May of 2020. She bet on herself—leaving her corporate career as a Creative Director to pursue something that would make her happy.

Named one of Destinations International’s 2017 30 Under 30, she graduated from Indiana University – Bloomington with a BS in Arts Management and a focus in Studio Art. She’s had the pleasure of speaking at conferences like Destinations International and the Wyoming Governor’s Conference on Tourism.

This isn’t her first business venture. From 2017 to 2019, Jamie ran a cookie company, The Ruby Cookie. Jamie has a lot of hobbies to keep her busy. In addition to her work as a consultant, she coaches spin classes at KrankFIT in Nashville. Always one to dabble in something new, Jamie’s latest project is restoring a 1920’s Chandler & Price Craftsman Press.

When she’s not working, spinning, or sleeping, Jamie can be found traveling with her husband, Cory, and cuddling with her rescue pups, Georgia and Snoop.

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Questions and Topics Discussed in this Episode

  • What is brand strategy and why it’s important for every business
  •  What it’s like to work with a brand strategist
  • Content creation and marketing to build a brand.
  • Leaving a corporate job and moving into consulting
  • What else are you up to?

Nashville Business Radio is hosted by John Ray and produced virtually from the Nashville studio of Business RadioX®.  You can find the full archive of shows by following this link. The show is available on all the major podcast apps, including Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google, Amazon, iHeart Radio, Stitcher, TuneIn, and others.

Tagged With: Brand Strategist, Branding, Jamie Cox, marketing, Nashville Business Radio, Solopreneur, spin class

LIVE from WORKBENCHcon 2022: Ethan Abramson, THEBUILDwithETHAN

March 31, 2022 by John Ray

THEBUILDwithETHAN
North Fulton Studio
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LIVE from WORKBENCHcon 2022: Ethan Abramson, THEBUILDwithETHAN (Organization Conversation, Episode 11)

Ethan Abramson from THEBUILDwithETHAN, host of Building a Furniture Brand and owner of Ethan Abramson Furniture, joined host Richard Grove on this live edition of Organization Conversation. They discussed his journey in building furniture, discovering the maker community, the benefits of staying organized, his social brand, and much more.  Organization Conversation is broadcast from the North Fulton studio of Business RadioX® inside Renasant Bank in Alpharetta.

Ethan Abramson, THEBUILDwithETHAN

Ethan Abramson, THEBUILDwithETHAN

THEBUILDwithETHAN showcases the lighter side of professional Furniture Maker Ethan Abramson. Through photos, videos, and articles, Ethan helps to highlight building skills, tool use, and general shop practices for his audience.

You can follow along with Ethan on his social channels, or see him in person as the host of many Woodworking, Tool, and Maker events.

Whether showcasing his furniture, sharing product and tool reviews, or at an event, Ethan is happy to help with any woodworking, tool, or shop question, so always feel free to ask. You can reach out here with any question you may have, or even to just say hey.

Ethan also loves partnering with brands, so if you are looking to showcase something, please contact him here.

Ethan’s podcast, Building a Furniture Brand, is here.

Connect with THEBUILDwithETHAN:  Website | Instagram | Youtube | TikTok

Ethan Abramson Furniture

Started in Brooklyn, NY in 2008, Ethan Abramson produces its own line of furniture as well as custom commissions for residential and commercial projects.

Owner and head designer Ethan Abramson’s creative process allows for the materials to influence designs as much as the function does. This balance leaves pieces with a true sense of origin and purpose, something rarely seen in mass-produced furniture.

“The process of building a piece of furniture is just as important to me as how it looks in the end. All the solid wood I use had a story before it came to my shop. My goal is to build on that story, to see the characteristics in the wood and what it wants to become. I think of my work not based in machines and numbers, but as a completely creative process, as if I am painting.”        — Ethan Abramson

Today the shop is located in Long Island, NY, but the guiding principles are still the same. All furniture is handcrafted on-site, built using a blend of classic and modern woodworking techniques. Wood from reclaimed sources or sustainable foresting is used whenever possible. Pieces are protected with a hand-applied all-natural finish. Designs and shop practices are built around the idea of minimal waste, re-purposing, and environmentally conscious production methods.

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About Organization Conversation

Organization Conversation features interviews with movers and shakers in storage and organization, from professional organizers to the creative and talented Brand Ambassadors who use Wall Control products every day. You’ll hear tips, tricks and how-tos for storage and organization, as well as receive first access to Wall Control promotions. We talk with our suppliers and partners to give you a look behind the scenes at how we operate, what makes our family-owned and operated brand tick, and some of the fun and interesting insights that go into making our business run. We love our guests, as they are engaging and entertaining with interesting experiences to share. By focusing on those guests and the amazing stories they tell, we hope you will be enriched and find your time listening to the Organization Conversation podcast as time well spent.

Organization Conversation is hosted by Richard Grove, and broadcast and produced from the North Fulton studio of Business RadioX® inside Renasant Bank in Alpharetta. You can find the full archive of shows by following this link. The show is available on all the major podcast apps, including Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google, Amazon, iHeart Radio, and others.

About Richard Grove

Richard Grove, Host, Organization Conversation

Richard Grove‘s background is in engineering but what he enjoys most is brand building through relationships and creative marketing. Richard began his career with the Department of Defense as an engineer on the C-5 Galaxy Engineering Team based out of Warner Robins. While Richard found this experience both rewarding and fulfilling, he always knew deep down that he wanted to return to the small family business that originally triggered his interest in engineering.

Richard came to work for the family business, Dekalb Tool & Die, in 2008 as a Mechanical Engineer. At the time Wall Control was little more than a small ‘side hustle’ for Dekalb Tool & Die to try to produce some incremental income. There were no “Wall Control” employees, just a small warehouse with a single tool and die maker that would double as an “order fulfillment associate” on the occasion that the original WallControl.com website, which Richard’s grandmother built, pulled in an order.

In 2008, it became apparent that for the family business to survive they were going to have to produce their own branded product at scale to ensure jobs remained in-house and for the business to continue to move forward. Richard then turned his attention from tool and die to Wall Control to attempt this necessary pivot and his story with Wall Control began. Since that time, Richard has led Wall Control to significant growth while navigating two recessions.

Connect with Richard:

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About Wall Control

The Wall Control story began in 1968 in a small tool & die shop just outside Atlanta, Georgia. The first of three generations began their work in building a family-based US manufacturer with little more than hard work and the American Dream.

Over the past 50+ years, this family business has continued to grow and expand from what was once a small tool & die shop into an award-winning US manufacturer of products ranging from automobile components to satellite panels and now, the best wall-mounted tool storage system available today, Wall Control.

The Wall Control brand launched in 2003 and is a family-owned and operated business that not only produces a high-quality American Made product but sees the entire design, production, and distribution process happen under their own roof in Tucker, Georgia. Under that same roof, three generations of American Manufacturing are still hard at work creating the best tool storage products available today.

Connect with Wall Control:

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Tagged With: custom furniture, Ethan Abramson, furniture, Organization Conversation, reclaimed wood, Richard Grove, The Build with Ethan, Wall Control, woodworking

The R3 Continuum Playbook: The Aftermath of Disruption: How to Create an Emotionally Healthy Workplace

March 31, 2022 by John Ray

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The R3 Continuum Playbook: The Aftermath of Disruption: How to Create an Emotionally Healthy Workplace

How can you maintain an emotionally healthy workplace which promotes positivity, hardiness, and healing? At the same time, how can you do so without diminishing productivity? In a recent webinar, Jeff Gorter, VP of Clinical Crisis Response at R3 Continuum, answered these questions and much more, including the best long-term strategies to support employees after a disruption.

The full webinar, Ask the Expert: The Aftermath of Disruption: How to Create an Emotionally Healthy Workplace, can be found here. The R3 Continuum Playbook is presented by R3 Continuum and is produced by the Minneapolis-St.Paul Studio of Business RadioX®. R3 Continuum is the underwriter of Workplace MVP, the show which celebrates heroes in the workplace.

TRANSCRIPT

Intro: [00:00:00] Broadcasting from the Business RadioX Studios, here is your R3 Continuum Playbook. Brought to you by Workplace MVP sponsor, R3 Continuum, a global leader in workplace behavioral health, crisis, and security solutions.

Shane McNally: [00:00:14] Hi there. My name is Shane McNally, Marketing Specialist for R3 Continuum. On this episode of the R3 Continuum Playbook, we’re featuring a segment from a recent webinar that was done with R3 Continuum’s Vice-President of Crisis Response Clinical Services, Jeff Gorter.

Shane McNally: [00:00:29] The webinar was titled The Aftermath of Disruption: How to Create an Emotionally Healthy Workplace. This was an ask the expert webinar, where Jeff was answering questions that the attendees submitted when they registered for the webinar. We discussed how to provide support to employees in the aftermath of a workplace disruption, how asset framing can change a company’s narrative, how to avoid negative group thinking, and how to create emotionally healthy support system within your workplace.

Shane McNally: [00:00:56] In this segment from the webinar, Jeff discusses long term strategies that organizations and leaders can implement into their work environment to help create an emotionally healthy workplace.

Jeff Gorter: [00:01:07] Some further best practices, some further long term strategies that organizations are incorporating is recognizing that safety concerns right now are paramount in this current phase, in this transition phase. And by safety, I mean both psychological and physical safety. Again, we may feel quite confident about where we stand, not only in our traditional safety operations, but also our safety measures we’ve taken to address COVID.

Jeff Gorter: [00:01:38] But that doesn’t necessarily mean automatically that people feel psychologically safe about that. They may still have questions. They may still wonder. And particularly if we are not communicating transparently to the workforce about what steps we’ve taken to address their safety needs, their safety concerns, you’re going to be constantly playing catch up.

Jeff Gorter: [00:02:02] And so, organizations communicating transparently about here’s what we are doing to address your safety concerns in a larger picture, all of that builds in the culture of health, all of that influences and facilitates that culture of health. That also engenders the trust and engagement of the organization. That reinforces the sense of strength, of hardiness, of perseverance before the next crisis occurs.

Jeff Gorter: [00:02:34] Knowing that we learned some things from the last crisis that we are stronger because of that. Remember that post-traumatic growth and post-traumatic depreciation, and those who recovered the quickest from the depreciation were those who grew the strongest because of that. The struggles we went through directly influences our growth.

Jeff Gorter: [00:02:57] And so, those organizations that are able to highlight here’s what we learned, here’s how we grew, here’s how we are taking additional steps for your psychological and physical safety, builds a culture of health that can withstand the next crisis that’s going to come. And we know there will be. We know there will be other crises. And so, that helps build the hardiness.

Jeff Gorter: [00:03:23] Prioritizing that culture of well-being by incorporating that asset framing approach and that appreciative inquiry, make that part of our standard business operations, make that part of our standard operating procedures. Being able to approach things from that asset perspective, that positive perspective, and asking questions that continue to build on influences that care.

Jeff Gorter: [00:03:53] And continually assessing, opening a regular dialogue with your employees regarding their needs and involving them in those improvement efforts, that kind of engagement gives them a voice. And having a voice is empowering. Think about it, having a voice, being able to have a sense of agency, of influence following two years in which I felt completely out of control, in which I felt like I had no agency, in which I wasn’t able to effectively change or influence things. It was kind of just getting by.

Jeff Gorter: [00:04:29] And so, being able to engage them in what are your needs, and how can we help them, and what suggestions do you have, that kind of improvement dialogue back and forth reinforces a sense of agency and a sense of control, which leads to an empowered and engaged workforce.

Shane McNally: [00:04:51] Creating and maintaining an emotionally healthy workplace can be difficult, but it’s incredibly important. Looking for more information on how to provide psychological and physical well-being to your employees? R3 Continuum can help. Learn more about our R3 Continuum services and contact us at www.r3c.com or email us directly at info@r3c.com.

 

 

Show Underwriter

R3 Continuum (R3c) is a global leader in workplace behavioral health and security solutions. R3c helps ensure the psychological and physical safety of organizations and their people in today’s ever-changing and often unpredictable world. Through their continuum of tailored solutions, including evaluations, crisis response, executive optimization, protective services, and more, they help organizations maintain and cultivate a workplace of wellbeing so that their people can thrive. Learn more about R3c at www.r3c.com.

R3 Continuum is the underwriter of Workplace MVP, a show which celebrates the everyday heroes–Workplace Most Valuable Professionals–in human resources, risk management, security, business continuity, and the C-suite who resolutely labor for the well-being of employees in their care, readying the workplace for and planning responses to disruption.

Connect with R3 Continuum:  Website | LinkedIn | Facebook | Twitter

Tagged With: Disruption, emotionally healthy workplace, Jeff Gorter, R3 Continuum, R3 Continuum Playbook, Workplace MVP

Decision Vision Episode 162: Should I Replace My Salespeople with Customer Service Representatives? – An Interview with Kristin Zhivago, Zhivago Partners

March 31, 2022 by John Ray

Zhivago Partners
Decision Vision
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Decision Vision Episode 162: Should I Replace My Salespeople with Customer Service Representatives? – An Interview with Kristin Zhivago, Zhivago Partners

In an age where customers can do extensive research on their own before they buy, does a business still need a traditional sales force? Kristin Zhivago, President of Zhivago Partners, and host Mike Blake explored the shifting nature of sales from a traditional salesperson to a role of customer service. They discussed the evolving needs of the customer or client, how companies meet those needs while still being able to track results, the implications for compensation and corporate culture, and much more.  Decision Vision is presented by Brady Ware & Company and produced by the North Fulton studio of Business RadioX®.

Zhivago Partners

Kristin Zhivago is the president of Zhivago Partners, a digital marketing management company that serves both B2B and B2C clients in a variety of industries. Her digital agency is comprised of a core infrastructure team and a variety of specialists in various digital methods and media.

If any of your performance “arrows” aren’t going up, we work on them until they do. That’s what Zhivago Partners think of as the whole point of marketing and sales efforts.

Today’s successful marketing demands best-practice approaches and constant attention to the success of those approaches. We all move quickly when something isn’t working as it should, improving and experimenting until the arrows start moving in the right direction.

So many clients come to Zhivago Partners after “spending so much and not getting anything for it.” You won’t have that problem with them, because they keep working on the issue—whatever it is—until your arrows start moving in the right direction.

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Kristin Zhivago, President, Zhivago Partners

Kristin Zhivago, President, Zhivago Partners

Kristin Zhivago’s career began in the high-tech industry; she and her husband, through their high-tech agency, helped introduce and market all of the technologies we take for granted today. When the web emerged as a commercial medium, she branched out into other industries and re-invented herself to become a revenue coach, helping CEOs and entrepreneurs sell the way the customers want to buy. Her 5-star book, Roadmap to Revenue: How to Sell the Way Your Customers Want to Buy was chosen by Forbes as one of the top sales and marketing books. Zhivago speaks frequently on the subject of the customer’s buying process, which she was one of the first to identify as being key to selling to today’s customers, and about building your business to compete effectively in our fast-changing, hyper-competitive markets.

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Mike Blake, Brady Ware & Company

Mike Blake, Host of the “Decision Vision” podcast series

Michael Blake is the host of the Decision Vision podcast series and a Director of Brady Ware & Company. Mike specializes in the valuation of intellectual property-driven firms, such as software firms, aerospace firms, and professional services firms, most frequently in the capacity as a transaction advisor, helping clients obtain great outcomes from complex transaction opportunities. He is also a specialist in the appraisal of intellectual properties as stand-alone assets, such as software, trade secrets, and patents.

Mike has been a full-time business appraiser for 13 years with public accounting firms, boutique business appraisal firms, and an owner of his own firm. Prior to that, he spent 8 years in venture capital and investment banking, including transactions in the U.S., Israel, Russia, Ukraine, and Belarus.

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Brady Ware & Company

Brady Ware & Company is a regional full-service accounting and advisory firm which helps businesses and entrepreneurs make visions a reality. Brady Ware services clients nationally from its offices in Alpharetta, GA; Columbus and Dayton, OH; and Richmond, IN. The firm is growth-minded, committed to the regions in which they operate, and most importantly, they make significant investments in their people and service offerings to meet the changing financial needs of those they are privileged to serve. The firm is dedicated to providing results that make a difference for its clients.

Decision Vision Podcast Series

Decision Vision is a podcast covering topics and issues facing small business owners and connecting them with solutions from leading experts. This series is presented by Brady Ware & Company. If you are a decision-maker for a small business, we’d love to hear from you. Contact us at decisionvision@bradyware.com and make sure to listen to every Thursday to the Decision Vision podcast.

Past episodes of Decision Vision can be found at decisionvisionpodcast.com. Decision Vision is produced by John Ray and the North Fulton studio of Business RadioX®.

Connect with Brady Ware & Company:

Website | LinkedIn | Facebook | Twitter | Instagram

TRANSCRIPT

Intro: [00:00:02] Welcome to Decision Vision, a podcast series focusing on critical business decisions. Brought to you by Brady Ware & Company. Brady Ware is a regional, full-service accounting and advisory firm that helps businesses and entrepreneurs make visions a reality.

Mike Blake: [00:00:21] Welcome to Decision Vision, a podcast giving you, the listener, clear vision to make great decisions. In each episode, we discuss the process of decision-making on a different topic from the business owners’ or executives’ perspective. We aren’t necessarily telling you what to do, but we can put you in a position to make an informed decision on your own and understand when you might need help along the way.

Mike Blake: [00:00:44] My name is Mike Blake, and I’m your host for today’s program. I’m a director at Brady Ware & Company, a full-service accounting firm based in Dayton, Ohio, with offices in Dayton; Columbus, Ohio; Richmond, Indiana; and Alpharetta, Georgia. My practice specializes in providing fact-based, strategic, and risk management advice to clients that are buying, selling, or growing the value of companies and their intellectual property. Brady Ware is sponsoring this podcast, which is being recorded in Atlanta for social distancing protocols.

Mike Blake: [00:01:12] If you would like to engage with me on social media with my Chart of the Day and other content, I’m on LinkedIn as myself and @unblakeable on Facebook, Twitter, clubhouse, and Instagram. I also recently launched a new LinkedIn group called Unblakeable’s Group That Doesn’t Suck. So please join that as well if you would like to engage. If you like this podcast, please subscribe on your favorite podcast aggregator, and please consider leaving a review of the podcast as well.

Mike Blake: [00:01:39] Today’s topic is, should I replace my salespeople with customer service or customer care representatives? According to the State of the Connected Customer Report, 2nd Edition, produced by salesforce.com, 84% of customers say that the key to winning their business is being treated like a person and not a number.

Mike Blake: [00:01:57] And, you know, like so many things in the last two years, I think we’ve changed our relationship with sales. It’s been very difficult, I think, for a conventional sales approach to survive in a coronavirus, trans coronavirus pandemic. Hopefully, we’re getting to the other side of this thing, but who the heck knows? And for a long time, some of the traditional sales approaches and techniques simply are not available to us.

Mike Blake: [00:02:38] You couldn’t take someone out to a ball game because they weren’t playing. You couldn’t meet people in bars and restaurants. Conferences were effectively shut down for a year. Flying out to see people was difficult at best, and the list goes on and on. And meanwhile, we’ve undergone a massive digital transformation, and traditional sales methods are being replaced. At a minimum, they’re being supplemented, but they’re largely being replaced by digital relationships, real conversations, freely providing information with no expectation of something in return, an approach to business that is about alignment with core beliefs of customers, employees, and even shareholders. You know, it’s all changing and has all changed and some of it will change back. But I don’t think that all of it will. I don’t think anybody thinks that all of it will. And sales have changed. And if we want to continue to being as successful as we have been in the past, this is simply one more of the areas in which we need to change.

Mike Blake: [00:03:59] I was having a conversation with our guest about a week and a half ago. And she brought to me this idea and this concept that she’s been advising her clients on in terms of changing a posture of sales from the traditional sales representative to a customer, a customer care representative, if you will. And I thought that was really interesting.

Mike Blake: [00:04:28] And as we continued that conversation, it got my wheels turning and thinking, you know, there’s a lot here. And I think a lot of companies may be starting to do this or they’re at least sniffing around the concept if they haven’t pulled the trigger. And that tells me it’s an opportune time to address this topic on the podcast.

Mike Blake: [00:04:48] So, joining us today is Kristin Zhivago. Kristin is the president of Zhivago Partners, a digital marketing management company that serves both business-to-business and business-to-customer clients, consumer clients in a variety of industries. Her digital agency is comprised of a core infrastructure team and a variety of specialists in the various digital methods and media.

Mike Blake: [00:05:11] Kristin’s career began in the high-tech industry. She and her husband, through their high-tech agency, helped introduce and market all the technologies we take for granted today. When the web emerged as a commercial medium, she branched out into other industries and reinvented herself to become a revenue coach, helping CEOs and entrepreneurs sell the way her customers want to buy. Her five-star book, Roadmap to Revenue: How to Sell the Way Your Customers Want to Buy, was chosen by Forbes as one of the top sales and marketing books. Kristin Zhivago, welcome to the program.

Kristin Zhivago: [00:05:43] Thank you so much. Good to be here.

Mike Blake: [00:05:46] So, I want to start off with a very basic question that may not be so basic, but it sounds basic, but the answer may not be. In your mind, what is the difference between a sales representative and a customer service or customer care representative?

Kristin Zhivago: [00:06:03] There’s a big answer, several big answers to that question. I’ll try to keep it succinct. One is the way salespeople are compensated. So, they are compensated to close sales, get to the end, make the money come in. So, there’s commission, there’s quota, there’s usual push, push, push kinds of things. The other is the type of person who enjoys working in that environment and thrives in that environment, as we used to call them hunters. And then, there are other types of people who are farmers or nurturers, and those people tended to stay out of sales because they didn’t want to work on a quota and they didn’t want to do that push, push, push stuff.

Kristin Zhivago: [00:06:49] Now, the real problem is that, and I used to call myself a recovering salesperson, but I think I’m so far beyond it now. I don’t need to worry about that anymore. But there’s a tendency among salespeople to want to be the ones in the conversation who know the most about that particular thing. It’s a point of pride where they know the product and they know the answers and so on, and they’re educating the customer.

Kristin Zhivago: [00:07:18] The problem is customers are no longer dependent on salespeople anymore for their information. And even ten years ago, when I was giving speeches in Holland to sales groups about customers, even then I was saying that the customers are getting 60 to 80% of their questions answered on the web before they ever talk to a salesperson. And they had access. And they definitely do now, even more than before, to other customers who had bought that product or service. And so, they not only knew the good, wonderful stuff that the salespeople would say but the stuff that the salesperson wouldn’t say. They find out that sort of the ugly underlying truth, if there is one.

Kristin Zhivago: [00:08:06] So, that’s changed. And the customer, by the time they get to a salesperson, they have one or two very specific questions. And, the salesperson has to be able to answer those questions. And, another problem with salespeople is that they’re often trained more for the general top-of-the-funnel types of questions. And they always have to say, oh, I have to get my technical expert in on that one or something or a subject matter expert for the bottom of the funnel.

Kristin Zhivago: [00:08:38] So, there’s a lot of disconnects going on right now in all industries. And if you ask a normal person, you know, do you like being sold to? The answer is no. So, we’ve just got a real problem with people hiring people to do things that other people that they’re selling to don’t want.

Mike Blake: [00:09:00] Yeah. And, you know, I think we even have less of a tolerance for it now, for whatever reason, whether it’s lack of patience or we just find our time to be more valuable or – it’s just a rewiring of how we as human beings approach things. I think we’re even less tolerant of being sold to now than we were, say, 2 to 3 years ago. Do you agree with that?

Kristin Zhivago: [00:09:24] Oh, yeah. I definitely agree with that. And especially because, you know, Google still owns about 95% of the search market and they’ve continued to get better and better at giving you what you want when you go to look. You might have to revise your search term a little bit, but there’s a new quality among customers now, characteristic, which, and I just wrote a blog article about this recently where they assume if they just keep trying, they’re going to find exactly what they want. So, they’re just – they have no patience.

Mike Blake: [00:10:05] Now, I’m curious. I was kind of thinking about this conversation. Can customer service representatives be confused or conflated with an inside sales position? Some inside sales being defined as somebody with whom you already have a relationship as opposed to a brand new relationship that you’re trying to convert. Is there a comparison or contrast that can be made there?

Kristin Zhivago: [00:10:34] Well, it’s an interesting question. I have a client who is the shining star example of this whole approach because I’ve been talking for years to people about making this shift because I saw it coming because I interview customers for my clients all the time. And I just – there’s no question that we’ve made this shift. But this particular client is a very good manager and he’s also an operations guy. He’s a logistics person. So, he tends to think in terms of logistics and he could see that that wholesales thing wasn’t working. He made the shift and brought his customer service people into this role of making it easy for customers to buy, which is another aspect of this. By the time they come to you, they have the money in their hand, burning a hole in their pocket, their virtual pocket, and they are ready to buy.

Kristin Zhivago: [00:11:31] So, you really have to just get out of the way, give them exactly what they need, and let them make the purchase. They’re on a quest to spend the money. So, you’re really helping them buy. You’re not selling them. You’re not trying to convince them of anything. You’re just giving them the facts. You understand – you know the product really well. And you understand how to give them what they want, maybe by doing things a little differently. If they need something right away and you’re stuck with the supply chain issue, maybe you help them rent something for a month before they get the product. This particular client makes data center equipment and they found that to work.

Kristin Zhivago: [00:12:16] These same people also go back to existing customers, people they’ve had, bought the product maybe two years ago or a year ago or whatever. And they have, as part of their job, to discuss those issues with those folks and check back with them and say, how are you doing? You bought this, how is it going? And people actually appreciate that and they’ve gotten a lot of sales out of that as well.

Kristin Zhivago: [00:12:42] I do have to say that since he did this, their sales have done that wonderful hockey stick thing that we love to see, that – I live for the hockey stick, where it just was going along, going along. And then, it zooms up. And this is a company that’s been around for a long time. And even with COVID, even with supply chain issues, they’re just – they’re going gangbusters. They can’t make them fast enough.

Mike Blake: [00:13:08] You know, that brings an interesting question, at least to me in mind, is that I think what you’re saying is that the role of the salesperson as gatekeeper to information has been made obsolete.

Kristin Zhivago: [00:13:24] Oh, absolutely.

Mike Blake: [00:13:25] By that.

Kristin Zhivago: [00:13:27] Yep.

Mike Blake: [00:13:27] Now, also, I might argue that a little knowledge can go a long way to be dangerous as well.

Kristin Zhivago: [00:13:36] Yeah.

Mike Blake: [00:13:37] A customer having done their research, but, and they may be informed, but they’re not experienced and may have in mind something, one thing, but there’s something completely different or just different, perhaps even more expensive, but is a much better fit with their actual need. And, is that something that the customer service representative is equipped to address?

Kristin Zhivago: [00:14:09] They should be. And, the trick here is they need to be humble enough and honest enough to say, “I don’t know. I’ll help you find out,” or, “let me check with my boss. Let’s get him on the phone,” or whatever they need to do to keep the conversation going, but to help the customer make the decision. And, a good customer service person if something else is better for the client will say that. And, again, because they’re not on a quota, they don’t have a commission, they’re not going to be personally penalized. Sometimes you can put them on a company-wide, if our revenue goes up a certain percentage, you get a bonus. That kind of thing is good because it’s for everybody. Everybody shares and if they help each other, they all benefit. So, I think that’s a better way to handle that kind of incentive.

Kristin Zhivago: [00:15:01] But in the individual conversation, they should be able and willing to just say, “You know what? I need to find out more.” Or, “You know what? I think this other solution might be better for you.” And what’s interesting about that is that the trust factor goes up like 1000% because now the person knows that they’re willing to help you to help them make a decision without being all biased and pushing them into something they don’t want. And they will remember that later when they’re in a position where they might want that, or if they want to recommend someone to someone else. If somebody says, do you know anybody good? And they’ll say, well, you know, I didn’t actually buy from these people, but they were so helpful and this might be what you want but they’ll tell you the truth. So if you go to them, you’ll get the straight scoop.

Mike Blake: [00:15:55] And I wonder in that context too, there’s just something about the dynamic where if the representative of the company, whatever form that takes, is willing to kind of let you go, if you will, that if they’re not the right – they’re not the right solution, you don’t have the right solution for them. But you’re not trying to hammer that square peg into a round hole. And I can tell you that some of my best and most loyal clients, for me anyway, are people that I initially said, you know what, we’re not the right people to help you.

Kristin Zhivago: [00:16:30] Yes. Happens all the time. Much more than anybody likes to admit, but that is correct. I’ve even had clients where when I first started talking to them, I kept thinking, I don’t know, I don’t know if we’re right for you. And I was saying it and they kind of had to talk me into it because we started realizing maybe I could help them. But you have to be agendaless.

Kristin Zhivago: [00:16:55] The problem with the classic salesperson is they have an agenda and that’s to close the sale. And that agenda is not the same as the customer’s. The customer wants to make the correct decision. Those are two very different agendas. So, if all you’re doing is trying to help them make the right decision and think it through, they’re actually going to be appreciative of the time you spend with them and the knowledge that you do bring to that process.

Mike Blake: [00:17:23] So, I think when most of us think of a customer service representative, myself included, I think of somebody that I’m calling when there’s an issue to be addressed or a problem that has to be solved or a failure that needs to be fixed. And, in making this switch, what we’re doing is that we’re expanding the role of existing customer service representatives to then add this responsibility to take care of potential new buyers, if you will, or new purchases. Or is there a redefining kind of both roles that creates more alignment with the descriptive vocabulary?

Kristin Zhivago: [00:18:11] I think it’s more of a realignment. I was just talking to one of the wonderful people. She’s very helpful. She’s done a fantastic job in this role. And she said something interesting. She said, you know, if her manager, the guy I’ve been talking about, had set it up just like the normal sales thing, she wasn’t interested at all. You know, she wasn’t interested in the extra money. She wasn’t interested in the whole push, push, push. But she loves helping people make these decisions.

Kristin Zhivago: [00:18:43] Now, you do still have to have customer service people and they have, in this particular company, it’s a mid-size company, they have two people handling these types of conversations and then other, a couple of other people who handle the normal customer service kinds of stuff. Because that’s more of after you buy, now you’ve got an issue you need to deal with. It’s a very different thing.

Mike Blake: [00:19:11] Yep. So, you know, making this transition – let’s talk about the mechanics of making the transition because if somebody is interested in this topic, they’re probably wondering, okay, how do I go about this? And the first question is, can an existing sales force be retrained, reconfigured, reoriented realistically to adopt a customer service posture? Or, is it more likely that you’re going to have to make some wholesale changes?

Kristin Zhivago: [00:19:50] The latter. I mean, I always laugh. I mean, I would love to say you could teach. And we tried, actually, you know, because this wonderful manager had already bought into the whole concept. And so, they had me do some coaching of their current salespeople. It didn’t work, and I’m a pretty good sales coach, but it was just – it was so contrary to what got them up in the morning. They liked being the guy who knew it all. They liked being the guy who was reaching out, talking to people. And as it turns out, they actually left the company for other reasons, but which turned out to be a good thing. So, we were able to work that out. Excuse me.

Kristin Zhivago: [00:20:34] But, when we looked back at their activity, most of what they were doing was talking to existing big customers and doing that hi, how you doing, Bob? How’s the wife and kids? And going out for golf back in the day when people did that. And they weren’t really selling anyway. They were just riding on the coattails of some large deals. So that was – but that was a separate thing, I mean, that particular group of folks.

Kristin Zhivago: [00:21:08] But they really don’t have the same kind of mindset. Now, you’re going to think, well, what are salespeople going to do if the role of the salesperson is gone? And the answer is, I don’t know. I have a lot of friends who are salespeople. I love salespeople. They are great, you know. But in a way, this is like cats and dogs. Salespeople are dogs. They jump up and greet you and they’re all happy and outgoing. And the customer service people, I don’t know, if they’re exactly cats because cats kind of turn you into a slave instead of the other way around.

Kristin Zhivago: [00:21:41] But it’s a different – it’s a nurturing thing. It’s a comforting thing. It’s a caring thing. It’s a helpful thing. It’s the only thing that matters is that you end up happy when you hang up the phone. And that’s all they care about. It’s a different kind of thing. So, at the moment, I haven’t seen that work. So, yes, you probably have to hire, at least hire somebody to start working on this even if it’s part-time from their home, which is good because you can do a virtual thing and try it out.

Mike Blake: [00:22:13] I wonder if a future role for traditional salespeople – first of all, I wonder if there are industries where that’s still going to work, for example, something that’s heavily commodity-driven, where it’s really not about information at that point because everything’s homogeneous. But also I wonder if there’s still a role for that kind of salesperson making outbound calls because it seems to me, and correct me if I’m wrong, the customer service role that you’re describing seems awkward to me in an outbound role.

Kristin Zhivago: [00:22:54] Yeah. I agree.

Mike Blake: [00:22:55] And that, it’s like calling up random people and saying, “Hey, do you need help?”

Kristin Zhivago: [00:23:00] Yeah. I’m glad you brought that up.

Mike Blake: [00:23:00] And, maybe well-intentioned but [inaudible].

Kristin Zhivago: [00:23:01] Yeah. I’m really glad you brought that up because there’s another aspect of this, another part of this, which is one of the reasons that this is working so well for this particular client, is that we happen – our company, our agency lives to bring in leads, good leads for people. And, we just keep figuring out what digital channels or what other things we need to do to make that happen. And so, they have a good flow of incoming leads. They don’t need anybody to make outgoing cold calls. So, that’s number one.

Kristin Zhivago: [00:23:36] Number two, the whole idea of cold calling doesn’t really work anymore. There’s a lot of companies that claim they can do it. I’m honestly, I keep trying to see if I can make it work somehow, and I’m just not convinced. When somebody is ready to buy, nothing will stop them from going out to Google or their friends or whatever and finding the people they should talk to and then reaching out. They’re just – they know you’re accessible. The websites are all there for them. They can go and go and find you in a nanosecond.

Kristin Zhivago: [00:24:12] So, the whole idea of calling someone who might have a need maybe because of their title or their role or whatever or the company that they’re in, it’s just – the only you can do with those folks is to nurture them over time with really good information that you keep sending to them and do kind of a cold email outreach, maybe combine it with LinkedIn or something. But until they’re ready, they’re not interested. And they’re just – it’s just going to be a very discouraging exercise for someone.

Mike Blake: [00:24:46] Yeah. And to that point, I mean, I’m not even sure. In many cases, I’m not even sure how you effectively cold call, although companies still do it right. We all still receive phone calls for extended warranties and somebody wants to buy our house. So, it’s still going on. Although, again, it’s weird that this focused on those two things.

Kristin Zhivago: [00:25:08] Yeah.

Mike Blake: [00:25:09] Presumably, it works so they wouldn’t do it.

Kristin Zhivago: [00:25:11] Well, I think the extended warranty people are playing a game of numbers. They make millions of automated calls and –

Mike Blake: [00:25:19] Yeah. That’s right.

Kristin Zhivago: [00:25:20] And then, they get enough to pay for it so they keep it up.

Mike Blake: [00:25:24] And, you know, I think that I think that’s exactly right. And that because the calls themselves are automated, the economics can kind of work. But the notion of sort of dialing for dollars, how do you get through to anybody anymore?

Kristin Zhivago: [00:25:41] Well, that’s the other thing. Everyone has caller ID.

Mike Blake: [00:25:44] Yep.

Kristin Zhivago: [00:25:44] And whether it’s on their office system or their phone, mostly their phone. And they just aren’t going to answer the phone and even says, you know, possible spam.

Mike Blake: [00:25:54] Yep.

Kristin Zhivago: [00:25:55] Or I live in Rhode Island and there’s a little island off the coast of where I live, and it’s called Block Island. And I know for sure that there is no corporation on Block Island that’s going to be calling me about anything. So, when it says it’s Block Island, I just laugh. I just – you know, so the screening aspect is, oh, golly, 100 times more effective than it used to be. And so, you just don’t get through. And if they don’t want to answer you, they just don’t – they’re not interested. People don’t return every call anymore. They’re just not going to do it.

Kristin Zhivago: [00:26:31] So, yeah, I think it is broken. You said it was totally obsolete and it really is. And to me, it’s a real shame. And this is one of the biggest problems with sales and marketing, in general, is that people will go on for decades doing the wrong thing, hoping it’s going to work because somebody sold them on the idea. And it’s very different from manufacturing or finance or any of the other areas of business where you can tell pretty soon that something’s not working, especially manufacturing, and you stop doing it. But they’re not doing that with sales and marketing. They keep beating their heads against the same wall and hoping it’s going to work. It’s very sad.

Mike Blake: [00:27:13] Yeah. And, it’s interesting because I think it speaks to how hard sales and marketing is.

Kristin Zhivago: [00:27:24] Yeah.

Mike Blake: [00:27:24] That I think to some extent, you’re almost – it’s a placebo effect, right? You’re almost happy just hiring somebody that even says that they’re capable of doing it and that they want to do it.

Kristin Zhivago: [00:27:37] Yeah.

Mike Blake: [00:27:37] Even when –

Kristin Zhivago: [00:27:39] And six months later, you spent all the money. This is the situation our clients are in when they come to us is I’ve tried this and this and this and I spent all this money and the needle didn’t move. And, that’s sad. That’s really sad.

Mike Blake: [00:27:55] I’m really glad you brought that up because that segues in another question I wanted to ask, which is, it seems to me that a key difference between traditional sales and, I’m going to call this, this new approach, if you will, or the customer service approach to sales is that that traditional sales are very easy to measure, right? Number of calls, number of conversions, etc., etc. You just go down the line. Customer service seems, to me, harder to kind of define and measure and manage KPIs over time. But you tell me, is that true?

Kristin Zhivago: [00:28:32] No, it’s not true. This manager is very logistically driven, as I mentioned. And we have KPIs. We have advertising that we do. We do content marketing for them. In fact, we started advertising some of their most popular blog articles, which is bringing in wonderful leads for us. Something we just started. And, we can track. If you have a good CRM system and you’re tying the activities of the marketing campaign, the machinery of the marketing campaign, the infrastructure, to the client’s system, you can absolutely track the outgoing or the marketing effort all the way through to a closed sale. And in fact, each month we get on with the CEO of the company and we show them the actual ROI numbers. Here’s what has come from marketing and here’s your ROI. And, it’s a really big number and it’s a wonderful thing. So, yes, you can do that. There’s really no difference, I mean. And in fact, salespeople were never that good at entering data into CRM systems anyway.

Mike Blake: [00:29:46] That’s true.

Kristin Zhivago: [00:29:46] Yeah. Yeah. So, you can’t depend on them for that anyway. You really couldn’t, ever. So, now it’s a matter of automating that process going through and having little trigger points that say, okay, this was speed it came in. The only tricky thing is when they came into an ad and then they came back three months later looking at a blog article, and then maybe they had some kind of we had an email go out to them or something, and then they buy. So, which one of those things do you then attribute that to? And, we tend to there’s this is not a perfect science that you get as close as you can get. And in that case, we would attribute it to the first touch, the ad.

Mike Blake: [00:30:33] So, I wonder, do you ever encounter that maybe there’s a little bit of a stigma here that needs to be addressed and that being that there’s a distinction in sales between the originator and the order taker? And, much of what you’re describing candidly doesn’t exactly fit. But I think you can see where I’m going. And if you look through the lens of a traditional sales role, it sounds an awful lot like an order taker. And, an order taker is sort of a dirty word because the feeling is that anybody can answer the phone, take an order and not screw it up. I think I know how you’re going to respond to that, but I’d like you to react to that. Is that stigma going away and what’s sort of happening with that belief system?

Kristin Zhivago: [00:31:26] Well, first of all, they’re not order takers. They are people who are helping the customer with their buying process. And, one of the big things I’ve been pushing for years in my book and all my speeches is that our job is not to sell the customer. Our job is to make it easy for them to buy. They want to buy. We need to make it easy for them. So, how do we do that?

Kristin Zhivago: [00:31:50] Now, I need to segue into something else for a second. In the book, I talk about the four types of products and services in the world based on the amount of scrutiny that the customer applies to the purchase. So, you’ve got light scrutiny, medium scrutiny, heavy scrutiny, and intense scrutiny. The light scrutiny products are commodities, really cheap. See it, buy it. Don’t have many questions; you know, the candy bar at the checkout counter kind of thing.

Kristin Zhivago: [00:32:16] Medium scrutiny is things like clothing on the B2C side and maybe some simple software on the B2B side. You have a few questions. It costs a little bit more than hardly anything. And there might be a few other people involved maybe. Then, there’s heavy scrutiny where you have lots of questions and there’s many people involved and there’s a salesperson who has to get involved to help you figure out how to structure the deal and all that. You have a lot of questions. On the B2C side, obviously, those are houses and cars and those kinds of big purchases. And then, intense scrutiny is all of that but you get married. It’s a long-term process or it’s a big, big deal like a Boeing airplane or something that somebody’s having Boeing make.

Kristin Zhivago: [00:33:05] So, obviously, this type of thing that I’m talking about is more in the heavy to intense scrutiny products and services that cost thousands to millions of dollars. And there needs to be somebody to answer those specific questions. Is this going to fit in my physical or virtual environment? How big is it? And honestly, even on Amazon, people don’t answer that question properly.

Kristin Zhivago: [00:33:35] And, now I need to talk about one other concept, which is something came up with a few years ago, which is the mindset of the customer when they set out to buy is more important than all the other characteristics of a customer. And, the mindset consists of their desires, their concerns, and their questions. And if you address all of those in your website and every place else, if you know what they actually are because you’ve interviewed your customers, then you’re going to make sales.

Mike Blake: [00:34:10] So, in making this change and I know you’ve shepherded at least a couple of companies in making this transition, does the change have to go beyond simply swapping out traditional salespeople for customer service representatives? Or, has it changed just sort of localized to what previously had been called the sales department and sales function?

Kristin Zhivago: [00:34:35] Well, you definitely have to get the CEO on board. CEOs love sales because, to them, it’s a very logical thing. You send people out into the world and beat the bushes and knock on doors and you get money. That’s how they see it. And, as we’ve talked about extensively in this segment here, those days are done. And so, it’s kind of sad, but they don’t have that anymore.

Kristin Zhivago: [00:35:04] So, now, you have to convince them that there’s another way, a better way. And, telling a CEO that you’re going to replace the salespeople with customer service people who are going to make it easy for the customer to buy will scare him to death, especially if you don’t have the right number of leads coming in. Because if you don’t have anybody calling out, even if it wasn’t working very well, it still felt like activity, your marketing better be working, bringing in qualified clients with content marketing and social marketing and all the stuff that we do to bring to bring customers in. So, that’s the part that is difficult. He has to be – he or she has to be on board with it or you’re going to be fighting and fighting and fighting all the way.

Mike Blake: [00:35:50] And, you know, to me, it also seems there needs to be a mindset change, even a cultural change in some respects. You know, when you – I’m, as I’ve said many times on this program, I’m a big, big fan of Simon Sinek’s Start With Why.

Kristin Zhivago: [00:36:08] Yeah.

Mike Blake: [00:36:09] Just re-read the book.

Kristin Zhivago: [00:36:10] Yeah. Good old Simon.

Mike Blake: [00:36:12] You know, one of the things, one of the lessons he teaches in that book is how so much of sales is outright manipulation.

Kristin Zhivago: [00:36:21] Yeah.

Mike Blake: [00:36:22] Right? Especially when you change price, when you lower price, for example, to land a sale, that’s just outright manipulation, which is, to me, was a brilliant observation.

Kristin Zhivago: [00:36:32] It’s true.

Mike Blake: [00:36:34] When you rely on outbound sales in a traditional sense, whether you realize it or not, whether you like it or not, you’ve basically put your chips in the middle of the table saying that we rely on manipulation to sell, right, and if you’re honest about it.

Kristin Zhivago: [00:36:54] Yeah.

Mike Blake: [00:36:54] Whereas –

Kristin Zhivago: [00:36:55] And the people at the receiving end would definitely say that for sure.

Mike Blake: [00:36:59] Yeah. I mean, the people on the offering end probably would not say that and that would be a very painful revelation to many of them. But from where I sit, that’s what’s happening. That would be my analysis. I think Simon would say the same thing.

Mike Blake: [00:37:13] So, the deeper organizational change, the deeper kind of soul shift, if you will, if I can get a little bit metaphysical here, is you have to embrace the fact that you’re going to do a lot of things for people that you don’t know, who may very well never buy from you and buy from your competitors instead and get nothing for it. But that’s now table stakes.

Kristin Zhivago: [00:37:46] Yeah.

Mike Blake: [00:37:47] Because otherwise, there’s no reason for somebody to kind of come to you.

Kristin Zhivago: [00:37:52] Yeah. That is correct. You’ve said it very well.

Mike Blake: [00:37:55] And that’s easy to say. I don’t think that that’s very easy to do.

Kristin Zhivago: [00:38:02] Yeah. And, you know, the guy who headed up Zappos had a very unfortunate end. Sorry about that. Because I did read his book and I was very impressed with what he was doing there at Zappos. But he built a whole business selling shoes and those people were instructed to do whatever they could to help a customer. And there’s a famous story in there about a woman who was on with another one, a customer, a female customer. It took them 8 hours to find the right shoe for her. And, you know, usually, a CEO would be horrified that somebody would spend eight full hours for one pair of $200 shoes or whatever.

Mike Blake: [00:38:46] Right.

Kristin Zhivago: [00:38:47] But the absolute delight. You know, that was their whole thing. We’re out to delight people. And it worked. And he became a billionaire. You know, Amazon bought the company. It wasn’t a bad result. But you really have to be willing. This takes some bravery and courage.

Kristin Zhivago: [00:39:06] You have to trust the fact that your buyers really do want to buy from you and that you really do have a good product or service and you’ve trained your people to be able to help the customer when they set out to buy and have that good, meaningful, consultative conversation, which is why I don’t like the word order taker because that’s not it. They’re not just sitting there taking orders.

Mike Blake: [00:39:30] Yep.

Kristin Zhivago: [00:39:31] They’re talking about, oh, you need this buy. Okay, we’ll have to figure that out. We can’t do it by that date. What if we do this? And what’s the basic setup of your data center, for example, and what kind of floors do you have and how high are the racks up from the floor? And, you know, so you have a lot of very specific requirements that people have.

Kristin Zhivago: [00:39:57] And by the way, this whole scrutiny model has been interesting to me in a sense where you can spend four hours on Amazon trying to find the proper $10 item. I mean, it’s gotten kind of skewed because, again, people think they’re going to be able to find exactly what they need. And, their needs are very specific. And so, your customer service people have to be able to address those needs and solve – and given the power and the knowledge to solve problems for the customer. They’re problem solvers.

Mike Blake: [00:40:35] And because they’re problem solvers, I think that the process of implementing this goes as deep as to even how you recruit.

Kristin Zhivago: [00:40:46] Oh, absolutely.

Mike Blake: [00:40:47] And onboard and compensate such people.

Kristin Zhivago: [00:40:49] Yes, of course. Absolutely. As I mentioned, you stay away from commissions and quotas and you make them very aware of the sales and where it’s going overall for the company. And you also give them bonuses, maybe quarter by quarter or at the end of the year. Let’s say the whole company went up this much and you were a big part of that so you get this percentage of that.

Mike Blake: [00:41:18] So, let me throw out kind of a radical idea. I’d like you to react to it. And if you just think that I’m crazy, please feel free to say that. You will not be the first person on the show to [inaudible]. I promise you.

Kristin Zhivago: [00:41:30] That’s fine. I’m not afraid.

Mike Blake: [00:41:31] But what about – can you even go so far as to reward somebody that make sure that you don’t get a – that you don’t acquire a bad customer? Because in a traditional sales function, you bring in the sale, you get your commission, and then it’s no longer your problem, generally. Right?

Kristin Zhivago: [00:41:55] Right. Right.

Mike Blake: [00:41:56] But it could be somebody else’s big problem, big headache. And, I’ll go back to start with why and there was an anecdote about a woman who constantly sent letters to the CEO of Southwest Airlines about how she was unhappy with the service because she expected full service on a discount service airline. And, finally, they basically responded to this person, the CEO responded to this person saying, you know, “Dear Mrs. Smith,” whatever her name was, “we’re sure going to miss you.” Because they spent so much time trying to satisfy a customer that can never be satisfied.

Kristin Zhivago: [00:42:35] Right.

Mike Blake: [00:42:36] And I don’t know about you, but I mean, I’ve had customers, clients I deeply regretted taking on. I can remember every single one of them. They can be so damaging to an organization. And, I wonder if a role also of a customer service representative is to identify a customer that in the long run, and maybe even the short run, is going to wind up costing the company money and filtering them out.

Kristin Zhivago: [00:43:08] Yeah. It’s an interesting question. For service businesses – and I am one and have been for years. I have a jerk test because I refused to work with jerks. I don’t have any jerk employees and I don’t have any jerk clients. So, we’re living in this bubble, this jerk-free bubble, which is a wonderful thing. I mean, honestly, nobody’s hurting anybody. Everybody’s helping anybody. And, I define a jerk as a person who makes life harder on other people. The good people don’t do that. They try to make life easier on everybody else. So, you live in an environment if you’re jerk-free where everybody is trying to help everybody do a good job and be happy.

Kristin Zhivago: [00:43:51] As much as you can do that in a service company, in particular, it’s a really good idea, or if you have long-term relationships with people. And just like the CEO of Southwest, you have to be willing to walk away if they are making life hard on the other people in the company.

Kristin Zhivago: [00:44:10] One of my clients right now is a big company that does benefit programs for H.R. companies. They manage the benefit programs. And so, I’ve been interviewing H.R. people lately and I’ve been asking – one of my questions when I do these interviews is, what’s your biggest problem right now? And, of course, the biggest problem is finding qualified talent.

Kristin Zhivago: [00:44:31] And, what really keeps people in companies in my experience working with hundreds of companies and thousands of customers and thousands and thousands of workers inside companies, large and small, is that management and the customers make it easier for them to do their job. They come to work. Nobody’s stopping them from doing the right thing. They have permission and full support to do a good job.

Kristin Zhivago: [00:45:01] So, that’s really what we’re talking about here and it has to be a culture in the company. And if the CEO or somebody on top is a jerk and they’re just jerking people around all day and making life hard, it poisons the well, and the good people leave. They don’t need to take it. They’ll find a job somewhere else in the blink of an eye, especially these days.

Kristin Zhivago: [00:45:24] So, I think in a way, this whole thing is about caring. That’s really what this is. It’s not about manipulating. It’s not about pushing people to get what you want. It’s caring enough about the people who are interested in what you have and the people working for you so that you make it easy for them to accomplish their goals. And then, that pays off. In my experience, it pays off big time.

Mike Blake: [00:45:52] So, what are some signs of – somebody listening to this may be thinking, oh, boy, you know, this is interesting. I got to think about it. I think very carefully about maybe moving in this direction. What are some signs that somebody listening to this show could use or try to identify in order to diagnose whether or not this is a scenario that’s hurting their own organization and this may be a change they should consider making? What are the symptoms of the disease?

Kristin Zhivago: [00:46:31] Unfortunately, they are very hidden from general management. And, I used to do sales and marketing department turnarounds, and I made sure that my office was right next to – I was, you know, at the side office with the windows. But in all the cubicles, there were salespeople. And, I could hear their conversations with customers. That’s absolutely essential if you’re managing a sales department because you want to know how they’re – what they’re doing with customers.

Kristin Zhivago: [00:47:02] Now, these days, you also usually record all the conversations and you start listening. This is where you’re going to find out if they’re pushing, if they’re trying to sell the whole presentation to the customer. You know, they want to tell the history of the company and all that.

Kristin Zhivago: [00:47:21] I was just talking to somebody recently. They said they went into a dealership to buy a car. They knew just what they wanted. They thought, okay, I could go in there and 15 minutes later, walk out with a car because I know they’ll have it and I know what I want. And, instead, the salesman tried to take them through the history of the company, and then his history working with the company and then the history of the brand that he was going to sell them. The guy was like, just give me the car. You know, just give me –

Mike Blake: [00:47:50] Right. Do you want to sell me a car or not?

Kristin Zhivago: [00:47:51] Yeah. So, top management has to listen to at least ten or 20 of the calls that a salesperson is making in a given week or whatever, and just start to realize, oh, man, if I was a customer on the other end, he didn’t hear – he or she didn’t hear what I just said. They’re pushing. They’re not answering the customers’ questions.

Kristin Zhivago: [00:48:17] And, you know, with all of this in mind, are we making it easier for them to buy? Or even not just the people, but our policies. We can’t sell it this way. We can only sell it this way. And what if the majority of your customers are saying, “Well, I want it this way.” So, this is what you find out when you get into the weeds, into those conversations because the conversation is where the sale is going to be made or lost.

Mike Blake: [00:48:49] I’m talking with Kristin Zhivago, and the topic is, should I replace my salespeople with customer service representatives?

Kristin Zhivago: [00:48:57] We don’t have much time left and I want to try to squeeze every bit of information we can out of you before you take off. Are there any industries in which this kind of transformation tends to be more effective than others? Is this shift tailor-made for specific, for some industries more than others?

Kristin Zhivago: [00:49:18] Well, I’d go back to the heavy and intense scrutiny industry. So, if your sales depend on someone being on the phone, you know, it’s not an e-commerce purchase where they can figure it all out and buy it online or clothing, the medium and light scrutiny things, this isn’t – you don’t need this kind of people, although there are some companies who use this method and are selling clothing and they do really well because customers know they can get answers. Again, we go back to Zappos as an example. But I think most of what I’m talking about here applies to B2C and B2B heavy or intense scrutiny products and services.

Mike Blake: [00:50:10] Kristin, this has been a great conversation. I’ve learned a lot, and I’m sure there are questions that somebody in the audience thought of that I didn’t or wished that we would have spent more time on one question more than we did. If somebody wants to follow up with you on this conversation, ask you questions, can they do so? And if so, what’s the best way to do that?

Kristin Zhivago: [00:50:31] Yeah. You can just Google me. I dominate the top pages, so just my name, and Google is fine. Our website is zhivagopartners.com. And in addition to the digital, the whole scale of digital marketing, the whole spectrum of digital marketing services that we provide, I also do revenue coaching. I continue to do that. I did that for decades before I opened this company. And I opened this company because I saw a lot of mid-sized companies who needed to understand digital marketing, and they had digital savvy competitors who were beating them in the marketplace. So, anyway, that’s how they can find me. And the book is on Amazon. It’s Roadmap to Revenue: How to Sell the Way Your Customers Want to Buy.

Mike Blake: [00:51:24] That’s going to wrap it up for today’s program. I’d like to thank Kristin Zhivago so much for sharing her expertise with us.

Mike Blake: [00:51:31] We’ll be exploring a new topic each week. So, Please tune in so that when you’re faced with your next business decision, you have clear vision when making it. If you enjoy these podcasts, please consider leaving a review with your favorite podcast aggregator. It helps people find us that we can help them.

Mike Blake: [00:51:48] If you would like to engage with me on social media with my Chart of the Day and other content, I’m on LinkedIn as myself and @unblakeable on Facebook, Twitter, Clubhouse, and Instagram. Also, check out my new LinkedIn group called Unblakeable’s Group That Doesn’t Suck. Once again, this is Mike Blake. Our sponsor is Brady Ware & Company. And this has been the Decision Vision podcast.

 

Tagged With: Brady Ware & Company, customer service, Decision Vision, Kristin Zhivago, Mike Blake, revenue coach, Sales, Zhivago Partners

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